besides the usual someone asking for money or credit card info.. is there another way to find out if someone is a scammer on here?

You mean as a fake profile ?

yes or just talking to you for a while then exchanging numbers and texting and calling each other, and then they just stop every thing

There is no real way to tell if someone's profile is fake or not. I have chatted with a few women here and ended up texting with them, but shortly they were asking me to send them money or buy them various gift cards. So, unfortunately, you can't know if they are scamming you or not until you chat with them awhile.

Some posts had been deleted because, although helpful, they were also helping scammers become better scammers.

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