Topic: loving a married man
lhyne36's photo
Wed 01/04/17 08:15 PM

what r the advantages and disadvantages if ever u fall inlove to a married man who s 25 years older?????

One advantage would be that you experience what you believe to be love and possibly learn from the experience.

The disadvantages would be relative to the intricacies of the situation and there consequences.

If the age difference was part of the attraction the chances of outgrowing a parent child relationship are high for both participants

some questions I would ask

Is the wife aware of your relationship?

What are the consequences of adultery in the country you are in?

What do you expect to gain from pursuing the relationship?

What is stopping you from pursuing this relationship?
Its not clear to me whether you have actually reached the status of mistress yet and its easier to ask than sift through the thread to find out


thank u
I can answer ur questions here but if I go deeper it will not be a good thing and women will get offended on how my mind work
in general I may say im not into marriage anymore because once was enough and im not looking for a husband just want to live and enjoy life.
Happiness cant be bought no matter how many millions u have

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Wed 01/04/17 08:35 PM

what r the advantages and disadvantages if ever u fall inlove to a married man who s 25 years older?????


I need to log off for the night, Mingle is getting to me tonight, really, a married man. If he falls for you, he is not good, if you fall for him, well, destroying a marriage, look really nice in a resume.

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Wed 01/04/17 09:25 PM
After reading every post here, I guess, my real advise, there is always Viagra.

lhyne36's photo
Wed 01/04/17 10:03 PM
After reading every post here, I guess, my real advise, there is always Viagra.




thanks for ur time
I keep that n mind:smile:
but I think as we grow older our sexual appetite will be lower as well.
as we aged sex s not that important but just spending quality time together
doing things u both love and supporting each other and understanding both flaws
u may not understand it but thanks for ur sense of humor

peppermint10's photo
Thu 01/05/17 04:50 PM
Dear Abby said years ago that if you manage to separate a married man from his wife, all you get is a man who cheated on his wife and you will be next!

jeanwhitter's photo
Thu 01/05/17 05:33 PM
yes you right

TMommy's photo
Thu 01/05/17 05:53 PM

Dear Abby said years ago that if you manage to separate a married man from his wife, all you get is a man who cheated on his wife and you will be next!


ahhhhh...but guess how many convince themselves that they are so outstanding, different and wonderful that he would never do this to them slaphead

lhyne36's photo
Thu 01/05/17 08:50 PM
Dear Abby said years ago that if you manage to separate a married man from his wife, all you get is a man who cheated on his wife and you will be next!



thank u
yes I agree with u

cheater s always be a cheater
and the same as
a liar s always be a liar

peppermint10's photo
Fri 01/06/17 12:48 PM


Dear Abby said years ago that if you manage to separate a married man from his wife, all you get is a man who cheated on his wife and you will be next!


ahhhhh...but guess how many convince themselves that they are so outstanding, different and wonderful that he would never do this to them slaphead


Most of them!!

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 01/06/17 01:16 PM
lhyne36:
cheater s always be a cheater


lhyne36 just answered her original question.

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Fri 01/06/17 02:25 PM
Good god... slaphead

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Fri 01/06/17 02:28 PM
Loving a married man is great....if he's married to you.

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Fri 01/06/17 02:33 PM
The answer is.... You're not looking for answers only validation. Sorry, I ran out of validation stickers this morning.

RustyKitty's photo
Fri 01/06/17 07:48 PM
Your question is very convoluted...
Too many variables involved - implications implied, then speaking in the third person..

SitkaRains's photo
Fri 01/06/17 07:56 PM

what r the advantages and disadvantages if ever u fall inlove to a married man who s 25 years older?????

I don't believe there are any advantages.
There are a whole lot of disadvantages.
1. If he would cheat on her he will cheat on you.
2. Think about the pain you will cause to his family kids, grandkids let alone his wife can you live with the knowledge out of selfishness you caused that type of pain. If so go for it.

Those are the top two I can think of.


Bottom line once a cheater always a cheater.

lhyne36's photo
Fri 01/06/17 09:42 PM
lhyne36:
cheater s always be a cheater


lhyne36 just answered her original question.


yes David
I've been cheated countless of times but I survived
this time s different because im part of it.
Do u really think I still brought this topic n here f I already know the answers? Not really, im grateful that each one of u take ur precious time to give ur opinions it means a lot
and it s all well taken seriously .
Million thanks

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Fri 01/06/17 09:58 PM
Hi

lhyne36's photo
Fri 01/06/17 10:12 PM
The answer is.... You're not looking for answers only validation. Sorry, I ran out of validation stickers this morning.



thank u
u think so? ??
I beg to disagree, im not here looking for validation rather than opinions and advices no matter how bad/rude it is.
Besides I dont register n this site if im still 100% happy on my situation(common sense pls)
I was confused and in limbo that time then I found out about this forum where I can open up that's how it started . All ur opinions and advices r taken seriously.

lhyne36's photo
Fri 01/06/17 10:13 PM
The answer is.... You're not looking for answers only validation. Sorry, I ran out of validation stickers this morning.



thank u
u think so? ??
I beg to disagree, im not here looking for validation rather than opinions and advices no matter how bad/rude it is.
Besides I dont register n this site if im still 100% happy on my situation(common sense pls)
I was confused and in limbo that time then I found out about this forum where I can open up that's how it started . All ur opinions and advices r taken seriously.

lhyne36's photo
Fri 01/06/17 10:33 PM
Your question is very convoluted...
Too many variables involved - implications implied, then speaking in the third person..



indeed ,
that's life -never been fair and a lot of complications
thank u