hi

Dear hopeful,
If you want to attract a woman then you have to know your way around words. You say you want to spend xmas with a woman and yet you only have one word in your entire post. "Hi"
One word? There is nothing that she can garner from that.
Women like men who can write a poem, or who love animals, or who are into long term relationships that are meaningful.
Just saying "hi" will not get you very far.
Women want to know about a man and they want to know what they can look forward to. They want to know about your interests and if there will be chemistry between you and her. They also want to have an idea of the kind of personality you might have and what you might be up to on a first date. If the best you can do is merely type in the word "sex" then that pretty well negates their interest.