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No. I make my own joy IRL or online
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Edited by
no1phD
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Wed 12/21/16 02:21 PM
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Hmmm.. first off !all the happy people hang out at my place..lol....
And being on a dating site for a long period of time.. is much the same as your workplace.. you have some happy bee workers.. and some not-so-happy bee workers... and just like the worksite you choose who you associate with... for the most part..lol. Now for the last part of the question does being on a dating site for a long period of time have an effect on you.?.. Well honestly!!..yes ! Yes it does!.. some days you can be grateful to have a place to go and make chit-chat.. and then sometime when you find yourself online.. you feel like (my God) I really need to get a life..lol.. |
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have you noticed the negativity? the repetition? the griping? complaining? the selfish wish list of needs? ever wonder where the happy people go? does being on a dating site for years have an affect on you? Its similar to being out in the community, very tiring so you take a break from the scene. |
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It is a microcosm of a bigger picture. Those who are negative, even melancholic, have a big venue for spreading their misery. Those who are happy can wander in and out without much harm. Agree with this... Don't forget there's a helluva lot of miserable people out there who don't know how to improve their happiness and quality of life on their own. I think for many it's more than 'not knowing', closer to 'can't be @r$ed' or 'lack the backbone', cos it would mean facing their own shortcomings .. Exactly Crystal. 
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It is a microcosm of a bigger picture. Those who are negative, even melancholic, have a big venue for spreading their misery. Those who are happy can wander in and out without much harm. Agree with this... Don't forget there's a helluva lot of miserable people out there who don't know how to improve their happiness and quality of life on their own. I think for many it's more than 'not knowing', closer to 'can't be @r$ed' or 'lack the backbone', cos it would mean facing their own shortcomings .. Exactly Crystal.
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have you noticed the negativity?. yes the repetition? yes the griping? complaining? the selfish wish list of needs? yes ever wonder where the happy people go? yes does being on a dating site for years have an affect on you? yes Oh No! But then I think and thinking is good Now all I need is someone who I think, thinks good too. Along with most other things on my wish list  
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have you noticed the negativity?. yes the repetition? yes the griping? complaining? the selfish wish list of needs? yes ever wonder where the happy people go? yes does being on a dating site for years have an affect on you? yes Oh No! But then I think and thinking is good Now all I need is someone who I think, thinks good too. Along with most other things on my wish list
Love this one.
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have you noticed the negativity?. yes the repetition? yes the griping? complaining? the selfish wish list of needs? yes ever wonder where the happy people go? yes does being on a dating site for years have an affect on you? yes Oh No! But then I think and thinking is good Now all I need is someone who I think, thinks good too. Along with most other things on my wish list
Love this one.
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