I was friends with my ex-wife after our divorce (we didn't have kids so I had the option of not talking to her). And it's funny because it took just a year for me to see how much of a biatch she truly was. I started dating (she was already dating) and she had the nerve to call me all pissy about it. So I let her have it by informing her that I was glad we divorced because now I was discovering what REAL SEX was all about. We haven't spoken in years......Ahhhhhh!

well that is a tough one for many to chew on

was married for over 20 years I was the one who filed

though by that time, it came as no surprise to either one of us

he moved in with a buddy of his

I moved into town with my son

he jumped right into the dating pool

I jumped right into school

He was dating and remarried within months

I would hear from the kids

" hey by the way dad's got a girlfriend"

course my response was " God help the woman she has no idea what she just took on"

no jealousy or envy on my part. I know who he was

eyes wide open when I walked out the door


so over the past five years

he has the ballz to ask my son all the time if I am dating, who I am dating

blah blah blah like it is any of his bizness

but yet he feels that it is

don't ever be friends with your ex. aint pssible.

"He still wants to have control without the commitment"

That would be enough to convince me that he is only using you.

that's all anybody wants us to be in control. its all about power.

****boy stay away honey !

He just wants the option of getting sex from you( or he thinks ) when he can't find any elsewhere