Since your child sounds like he is seriously handicapped by this social stunting I will not in the slightest way say this will turn around on it's own like some epiphany falling from the sky but is going yo take serious intervention which for both your sakes I hope you will pursue now.

I will keep you in prayer because I think this will be a long journey but one to be hopeful about.

I would avoid the my way or I am done but sometimes the most loving thing you can do is pack your kids bag and take them to a shelter or hospital.

good thing my son isn't 26

when i was old enough i left home and went to college