Good Evening America, I want to hit you with another controversial topic, I haven't done one in a while, okay Lets Get right in to it. Okay, supposed you met a person, rather its in the club, social media, mutual friends or at a party. this person is drop dead gorgeous and even intelligent enough to keep you real interested. Now this happens a lot in clubs but the atmosphere is quite loud and dark. After about a couple of weeks this person fell for you hard. they hinting they want a relationship with you. Before you agrees that have something to tell you , you know let the cat out the bag. They tell you they like you a lot and really want to be with you but they was born ( Fellas- A Man) . But here's the kicker( ladies - A woman). But here's the kicker, they had operation done , they legally & no longer have that organ anymore. Now would you continue to date this person knowing they no longer the biological sex anymore. Lets talk about this.....spill it !

What does this have to do with tea?

My head is spinnin. All I got to say is that's your decision to make.

No.

Partly because of this:

It means that basically this has been on their mind, they've been actively hiding it from me, and now they're making a big production out of it, a confession.
They're still insecure about it, they're still dealing with it, and having problems with it, and want to suck me into drama.

"Confessions" are for priests and therapists.
I have absolutely no desire to take on that role at the beginning of a relationship.

Other than that, the process of becoming transgender is not just "take a few pills, have a surgery, and voila, you never ever have to take hormones or deal with anything ever again, you are you but magically the opposite gender and your entire biological processes are now normalized and will keep you that way, and everything else is okay with no problems."

That would be the rest of why I'd say "no."

Would you date someone that had a thyroid problem, diabetes, and super PMS at random times every week?
Even though they were "drop dead gorgeous and intelligent?"

Tea = truth

As explained by Lady Chablis in "Midnight in the Garden of Evil"

It wouldn't really matter to me because I still wouldn't have sex with them even if they were and always had been a real woman. Maybe it's because I've never had a sexual experience that I enjoyed or cared to repeat but I treat all my relationships the same regardless of race, religion, sex, creed or sexual preference. I guess I'm just weird but it wouldn't matter if they told me they were from a distant planet it would change nothing.

Yes

SEE YA , DON'T WANA BE YA......

But here's the kicker, they had operation done , they legally & no longer have that organ anymore. Now would you continue to date this person knowing they no longer the biological sex anymore.


NO
They are what they are and biological is what they are.

no

medical manipulation of appearance changes nothing for me

if you were born male and embraced it ,,it the only way

Well scientifically they have proven that most homosexuals and nearly all transgenders have genomes of both sexes so "biologically" they could be both.

And there are studies that, say no one is born gay.

Doesn't matter, I don't need no stinking study

- Not in my world

that would be interesting science to read, but its still about procreation and not genomes


in any species,, if you carry the seed you are the female and if you produce it you are the male

if you have had the equipment to produce semen(penis and testicles) when you were born,, MALE

if you have had the equipmemt to accept the seed and grow life(ovaries, uterus)...female

IgorFrankensteen,

Well.... my tea is the talk......I adopted that from the gays. I thought it was a different way of saying talk>

Integrity1rst,

Oh Okay......!

JulietL_E,

Hey sweetie, good to see you again and that definition was perfect. you right "Tea" means truth.....

Ms. Harmony,

Hey my favorite" Vocal Avenger" well I am a 1000 percent a hetero but would I still date a 100 percent trans from man to women......well to be honest, I would probably have a little issue. I know visually it may looks like a woman but no matter how many operations, snip, snip, done and so on , mentally you still have a mans mind. Now if you were a friend of course I still hang out with you....besides its good to have one trans friend because when a straight guy go out with a transgender person they know pretty girls....lol

DNHBlue,

Good man, so even if they the male part still with them you have sex with them? okay maybe that person can make you sexually happy>

I took a vow of abstinence, I have sex with no one until the day I die.