Topic: Love or lust?
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Sun 11/06/16 10:21 AM
Is there such a thing as love at first sight or is it always just lust?

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Sun 11/06/16 10:35 AM
I believe in it cos it happened to me. It wasn't lust. I was waiting to go to a public toilet (not a romantic place lol)and there was a couple of sinks between the ladies and gents and a man walked in without even looking my way and proceeded to wash his hands. Just glanced at him and looked at his profile and it hit me like a punch!! I was literally smitten. We married and it lasted 21 years. love

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Sun 11/06/16 10:44 AM
Good evening.....wow! so it does happen then...but lol at the place and I'm glad he washed his hands haha

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Sun 11/06/16 10:53 AM
haha it wasn't very romantic was it? But I always felt it was fate cos there was a few things leading up to it that were really weird. We should never have met. But we did. I suppose you could just say it is a very powerful chemical reaction and it's only happened to me twice in my life. Here's to number 3 drinker smitten drool

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Sun 11/06/16 11:01 AM
Yes things happen for a reason no matter how strange they seem.....and i hope you find your soulmate and it lasts forever

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Sun 11/06/16 11:06 AM
I don't believe in love at first sight. To me love is deeper and takes more than first sight

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Sun 11/06/16 11:12 AM
Good evening.....yes like living together and knowing all their annoying traits lol

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Sun 11/06/16 12:00 PM
It depends upon a person. For a lustful one it is lust but the right guidance can take him or her high up to heaven where love dwells.

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Sun 11/06/16 12:42 PM
Good evening....you make it sound soooo nice.

Spotser's photo
Sun 11/06/16 01:17 PM
i agreehappy

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Sun 11/06/16 01:18 PM
Edited by IgorFrankensteen on Sun 11/06/16 01:19 PM
I don't think so. But then, I might define love differently from you. But no, it's not always JUST lust, either.

Just my opinion, but I think that sometimes, there's an instant attraction, and by chance, it turns out that the people are also compatible. So they agree that it was love at first sight, even though it really wasn't.

Any way it works out is good, though.

The biggest danger from getting too caught up in love at first sight, comes from jumping into something that's a bad idea, because you are really hoping for the LAFS experience.

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Mon 11/21/16 07:31 PM
lust fades sooner or later while love endures

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Mon 11/21/16 07:32 PM
I wish I knew what to tell ya. OK here it is. Every once and a while everything clicks for each other and they live happily ever after. True Story so I've heard. bigsmile

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Tue 11/22/16 09:14 AM

Is there such a thing as love at first sight or is it always just lust?


I SEE THIS A LOT 'LOVE OR LUST'...?.......I BELIEVE YOU CAN HAVE PASSIONATE LOVE

FOR ANOTHER AND HAVE IT LAST A LIFE TIME.......