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| Topic: Can't I just have a cuddle buddy, with no strings attache | |
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Can I have my cake and eat it.
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 Thanks Max
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Yell yes. Why not. Hey after 10 years with someone. And single again. I can admit. Maybe not the smartest choice. But you know what. It's how I feel right now. Thanks for the comments. Great thing about our own opinion it's ours and nobody can take it away from us :) comments were great. I was had a kick and my cake
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I just have to say that cuddling is cuddling to me. I have had people cuddle with me with nothing else involved. I just wanted to cuddle so I cuddled. Lol. And the guy and I cuddled all night for months until he had to leave. I've been trying to find a new cuddle buddy ever since.
Anyway......So BButton can have what he is looking for cuz it does exist. If you start to have feelings it's only because you are thinking about those feelings. |
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Ladies That's a good one. Look, she wasn't naked and she put pajamas on when we watched a movie and went to bed. That's why I said shorts. I was with Someone for 10 years. Sleeping alone sucks. This wasn't even my idea. I minored in psychology and understands the mental and emotional difference between a man and a women. When people say sex with no strings attached, only some people can do that and that's because they have hardened there heart and self centered selfishness is running there show. I like the idea of having someone next to me, talk to like a friend. I'm sorry I'm not going to have my buddy come have a sleep over. Ladies how many times have you slept next to your girlfriend in Bed, or even had a friend that's Gay sleep next to you. Why is it that if he is Gay, then it's ok? Can't a friend just be a Freind? I am not sure why I feel this way ... but I believe you can have a friend and just cuddle with them ... I have slept with men like that ... and women ... where we would just talk all night... but who knows maybe I might get emotional about it if we did not stay friends ...and feel someone might find a romantic relationship then our friendship would have to end ...and that is what might open my emotional doors ... |
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Thank you ladies, I'm glad a few other people feel the same way. Hey I'm a man and I'll be the first to admit, that I get Lonely at times. Some times women want to be held and feel save. But yes the fork in the road are feelings. But can't you love someone as a friend. Ladies I'll bet, if a love story between friends came out like the note book, you guys would have thought it was cute. So for the comments about, my friend probably wanted to see if I was guy. I can see the type of woman you are. That menans, you would just sleep with a guy to see if he was gay? That's an emotional **** over.
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I would like to hear thoughts from both men and women. What do you think?????
Ok, don't get me wrong. Sex is Amazing. But ladies, sometimes we just want a friend to cuddle with. You have no idea wow hard it is to find a girls that would just cuddle. I thought I finally found her. Never had sex with her, after the 2nd night. She says " I think I'm falling for you" wow I'm flattered, but what didn't you understand about. I'm not looking to get involved with anyone. Your keys purse and shorts are on the sink over there. Good night I'll hit you up tomorrow. So now I can't sleep |
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I wish they made a coin operated one those like the old vibrating beds in the hotels. Just put a quarter in lay down and spoon when ever you felt like it.
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I had once slept with my friend and just smooch him..
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Ok..I will cuddle.. but don't blame me..
If you find yourself pushed up against my hardness.. I can't help it !!..I get excited.. easily...lol.. does it mean that I want you sexually.. it's just whenever I lay down on a bed with a member of the opposite sex. Well!!.... it just happens!!...lol.. but again !!..it doesn't mean you're getting any..lol.. We're here to just strictly cuddle.. .. so if your nipples get slightly hard I will totally understand.... it's just part of the experience..lol.. |
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 emotional torture... Hmmmm
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Ladies That's a good one. Look, she wasn't naked and she put pajamas on when we watched a movie and went to bed. That's why I said shorts. I was with Someone for 10 years. Sleeping alone sucks. This wasn't even my idea. I minored in psychology and understands the mental and emotional difference between a man and a women. When people say sex with no strings attached, only some people can do that and that's because they have hardened there heart and self centered selfishness is running there show. I like the idea of having someone next to me, talk to like a friend. I'm sorry I'm not going to have my buddy come have a sleep over. Ladies how many times have you slept next to your girlfriend in Bed, or even had a friend that's Gay sleep next to you. Why is it that if he is Gay, then it's ok? Can't a friend just be a Freind? I know the feeling, I was married for 9 years and would love to meet someone who enjoys cuddles as much as I do |
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aww yeah babygirl so many cuddles and a soft kiss beautiful
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oh yes I think you can if you're a really good girl
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yes babygirl I would love to be your snuggle buddy I would hold you close and keep you safe always
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I'm not a cuddler. So is it relaxing or something?
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Without reading anything else into your question. Yes, sometimes cuddling and just hanging out is an option. Not everyone is out looking for the next thing, sometimes just having companionship is nice. Unfortunately there are alot of people, men and women who don't get the idea of just enjoying the moment. It's not always about sex, I get the need for cuddling, just having someone around.
So, yes...it's a possibility. Good luck... |
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Any one who has been given cake and then ate it...has had their cake and ate it too......the hard one, and impossible one is to eat your cake and have it too....why does nobody understand this twist on words.
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i love cakes
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i love cakes Put me down for some pie, baby. 
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