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Topic: Christian way of dating
Maegan26 Joined Mon 09/26/16 Posts: 1	Tue 09/27/16 01:22 AM
Hi everyone! Pls share with me your thoughts about Christian dating. what are your negotiable & non-negotiable.

MrMattJohn Joined Mon 09/26/16 Posts: 2	Tue 09/27/16 06:05 AM
age-negotiable honesty-non-negotiable trust-non-negotiable humor-an absolute must romance-definitely

MsJaneDo Joined Sat 01/28/17 Posts: 4	Tue 01/31/17 09:48 PM
I think that the wisest thing to do is to be FRIENDS before you date. When you know someone as a friend, you have already learned so much about each other. You have the information you need to determine if they are someone you would even THINK about marrying. It's sad to date and break up, date and break up... after awhile, people lose their ability to trust. This is why I DON'T DATE. I make friends. Maybe that's also why I've been single for 9 years.... But, as the song goes: Owner of a lonely heart, much better than an owner of a broken heart!

JulieABush Joined Thu 01/26/17 Posts: 3493	Wed 02/01/17 01:33 PM
I'm one of those "Owner of a lonely heart" (love that song by Yes and got it on my iTunes) and I also believe in the True Love Waits motto.

krissy55101 Joined Thu 12/01/16 Posts: 1163	Wed 02/01/17 01:49 PM
True Christians wait until they are married before having sex. There should be no negotiating about that. It seems kind of old-fashioned with the way the norms are today but it is still the right thing to do.

JulieABush Joined Thu 01/26/17 Posts: 3493	Wed 02/01/17 05:28 PM
Yeah, Krissy I agree. It just seems to me, and I hope you too, that we emphizes too much about sex and push our young people on having sex at a young age through what they see on TV and movies and even the music they listen to. I'm proud to be a virgin and will stay so until Mr. Right comes along. It seems to me that in the past we shund those who were sexually active and praised those who were virgins now it seems the other way around but it hasn't changed me and never will.

FM16 Joined Fri 10/09/15 Posts: 12	Sun 02/12/17 09:16 AM
Christian dating is applying Christian value to relationship, trust, honesty, forgiveness is attributes of a practical Christian which must be reflected in Christian dating and also abstinence from pre marital sex because God does not approve of it(1cor6:18-20)

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sun 02/12/17 10:28 AM
I think that the wisest thing to do is to be FRIENDS before you date. When you know someone as a friend, you have already learned so much about each other. You have the information you need to determine if they are someone you would even THINK about marrying. It's sad to date and break up, date and break up... after awhile, people lose their ability to trust. This is why I DON'T DATE. I make friends. Maybe that's also why I've been single for 9 years.... But, as the song goes: Owner of a lonely heart, much better than an owner of a broken heart! here, here , sister I think I actually turn away when someone is 'looking for dating', which makes it hard to ,,,,make friends,,,lol

Beman1997 Joined Sun 02/12/17 Posts: 2	Sun 02/12/17 06:20 PM
I just got back into church

kylermarley Joined Wed 02/15/17 Posts: 1	Wed 02/15/17 09:57 AM
well said

pauldutt Joined Sat 04/20/13 Posts: 4	Thu 02/16/17 08:54 AM
hi

pauldutt Joined Sat 04/20/13 Posts: 4	Thu 02/16/17 08:54 AM
Hi

Magiccube Joined Sun 02/21/16 Posts: 2	Sun 03/19/17 08:40 AM
Dear Krissy, thank you very much for our statement:))

gunslinger6929 Joined Fri 04/28/17 Posts: 4	Sun 05/07/17 05:46 PM
1 Respect -do not treat her like trash. 2No drinking it clouds judgement for both of you 3Be real , genuine and trustworthy

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 05/08/17 07:29 AM Edited by msharmony on Mon 05/08/17 07:30 AM
I think that the wisest thing to do is to be FRIENDS before you date. When you know someone as a friend, you have already learned so much about each other. You have the information you need to determine if they are someone you would even THINK about marrying. It's sad to date and break up, date and break up... after awhile, people lose their ability to trust. This is why I DON'T DATE. I make friends. Maybe that's also why I've been single for 9 years.... But, as the song goes: Owner of a lonely heart, much better than an owner of a broken heart! ahh, a kindred spirit... never understood why 'friend zone' became such a bad thing,,,its the only zone for me to choose a partner from,,,,,

fishtailz Joined Tue 05/09/17 Posts: 1	Tue 05/09/17 12:24 PM Edited by fishtailz on Tue 05/09/17 12:27 PM
Christian relationship should have God being the center of errthing

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Tue 05/09/17 07:35 PM
Hi everyone! Pls share with me your thoughts about Christian dating. what are your negotiable & non-negotiable. Your values and your faith are non negotiable

shalomagain Joined Sun 12/18/16 Posts: 2	Wed 05/10/17 09:55 AM
It's a jungle out here - happy to see some faith- filled friends online!!

monicarenee Joined Tue 01/17/17 Posts: 2	Thu 05/11/17 10:38 AM
Seems to be too many sex crazed people... I have had to block so many even though I have made it very clear on my profile!!

karina232 Joined Tue 05/09/17 Posts: 2	Sat 05/13/17 08:51 AM
I'm single looking for serious and honest relationship