Hey, I just started dating a girl, we went out for coffee and a drink last week, we hit it off, I really enjoyed her. She asked me for the second date out to dinner, we went out to dinner then got some coffee and then we went up to her place so she could show me some paintings she drew, which were absolutely beautiful. We sat on the couch, talked and cuddled. She later asked me if just cuddling was ok, she said she was a virgin at 25. At the end of the night I tried for a good night kiss and she just put her face in my chest, is she just not ready for the first kiss? Another question I have is I asked her if she wanted to do anything today, but she said no, but then she said she wants to see me again, is she just saying that or does she really want to see me again? I really like this girl and I believe she probably likes me as well.

if she is a virgin.. maybe she is afraid kissin you will lead to something else and she might not want that but hey what do i know..

and she very well might wanna see you again .. she just might be busy or something.. just see what happens

well I am not a girl ... but tak it at face value.. she said she wants ot see you again, she wants to see you again... some people just dont want ot hang out with someone everday... as far as teh kiss goes I wouldnt lose sleep over it

None of us can read her mind. You should ask HER. I would rather know the truth than to speculate about her intentions.

hummmm if you really like her take it slow everyone has their own oace at things...keep good communication with her that will help alot...let her know you wont rush her...to be a virgin at 25 says alot about her....she has alot of self respect and wants to make sure things are right before taking things to the next level....

Maybe she was busy that day. Ask again, the worst that can happen is she says no. If she DOES say no again, make sure she's got your number, and tell her to call you when she can go out again. If she calls, great, if she doesn't......well, at least you'll know, and that way, you won't be wasting your time chasins someone who's not really interested.

Whatever happens, good luck to you.

*pace*

LOL, theres no such thing as a 25 year old virgin!

I think you should
take it slow.

She might not
have dated that
many men in the past.

If she doesn't want
to kiss on the second
date it means she's
not ready for it yet.

When and if the time
comes, she will be ready.

mry,

I don't agree.

I think they exist.

A 40 year-old virgin
I'd have a hard time
believing.

LOL,I'm a 45 year old virgin! Do you believe that one??

I wouls say be patient with her and when she is ready to move to the next step then go for it just remember to be gental. IF she really is a virgin don't put it. Just enjoy each other company. It will have to be at her pace.

I will definitely take it slow, when she is ready for that first kiss i'm sure she will make the move

"LOL, theres no such thing as a 25 year old virgin!"

mry - Actually there are some technicalities on that one. When I got divorced, I had the judge reinstate my virginity status. All you have to do is fill out a few forms and strangely, notify the IRS.

????

she'll let ya know when she's ready. you just hope you'll know the signal if she's subtle person.

Well mry,

You could
be a BORN AGAIN
virgin!

keywhee,

I didn't get reinstated
or notify the IRS.

Am I in trouble here?

Well, I was looking over the paperwork again and apparently, you notify the IRS so they can be the first ones to screw you again.

Hmm.....

lol, you ain't lying keywhee!

A lot of mixed signals coming from her, virgin or not. Take it slow, let her make the first move to take things further.