Everything else considered fair to midland in a relationship.
What is the "WORST thing" you are willing to deal with BARRING any conditions.
You can post as many times as needed. As you may find your opinion will change after others post.

This thread will allow us to see who would be willing to accept our "WORST thing" without having to ask.




I would be willing to accept someone who is financially poor

If he touches my things without my permission.
I don't like my stuff touched.

I could probably handle him not putting the toilet seat down.......

Let's see... of the seven deadly sins, I can handle a pretty significant amount of:
Pride
Sloth
Gluttony

In a partner.

Each of the other deadly sins is more likely to be a dealbreaker though.

Lol, it's funny because I guess I have been trained well! It's second nature to me to always put it down and flush!
I could handle doing pretty much all of the cooking even the grocery shopping

How could anyone accurately answer this?
Everything would have to have limiting conditions.

I mean

What if evidence of that financial poorness is they only wear mens thrift shop clothes, don't shave, and only bathe once a week, never using deodorant?

Or what if they say "I'm only dating you because you buy me food."

You're still willing to accept that someone who is financially poor?

Nothing is going to stand alone, not interconnected with something else.

I wouldn't date someone who spent all day watching child porn for fun.
I would date someone that worked for the FBI whose job was to spend all day finding child porn on the net tracking down predators.

Without limiting conditions the later statement could be reworded as "I would be willing to accept someone who looks at child porn all day."



Once you start with the limiting conditions you can always find more and more and more and more until you basically build a solitary ideal person who will never ever ever exist.

Daam you just described my ideal mate.

Guess the worst thing I would be willing to deal with in a relationship then would be that they existed

The things I will not deal with is a person that is abusive physical or verbally~~~ Cheating is the number one reason that will get you out of my life quick...

I have no problem with one that drinks, for I like one here and now and a good throw down as well.. But if you drink to the point you can not function on a regular bases, then you will not be around long~~


We all have our issues and quirks which most learn to look over the small things.. for it is that person.. But there are some things there is no looking over..

If I found someone with whom the right amount of intimacy (in to me see) was achieved I could deal with someone who was not interested in sex.

While I would prefer a sexual component to a relationship a lack of value in one area can be balanced by value gained in another area.
It all depends on each others value system.

The lady who wins your heart Yeti, will be a very lucky lady! LOL

Personally, as long as the man I fall for has a job and can support himself and pay his bills it doesn't matter how much money he makes.

I won't condone a partner who is a player and blurbs a lot in my presence

My firm dealbreakers include habitual liars, extreme substance abusers, physical abusers, an excessively jealous /suspicious nature, extreme inconsistency in mood and behavior , an excessively judgmental attitude,, and an inability to resolve conflict through talking.

However, there are 3 or 4 qualities/elements that I look for in a man and in a relationship that are so rare, that if I actually found it with a guy, I would be willing to overlook almost every flaw under the sun , except the ones I mentioned above. :)

rescheduling a date due to work or family

Outside of the usual cheating and abusive azz hattery.....those are too easy to admit to not liking.....I would probably blow a gasket over someone who is just plain messy around the house.

Pick yer $hit up, or GTFO!

hahahaha...anyone who sits on his azz in front of the boob tube

and hollers " woman fetch me a beer"

I wouldn't be willing to deal with any "WORSTs", BreakingGood. I've already had that.
These days I'm not even waiting for the red flags, I'm out at orange.

Nothing.... accepting the worst things you are against is giving in just for the sake of giving up. I would rather die old and happy instead of old and miserable.

I'm channeling Carl Perkins just for today, so any worst behavior is fine as long as he lays off my Blue Suede Shoes.

Tomorrow will be a different story though!

Laziness gota take care of home !!! U dig

make this 2 to go...