Topic: Looks - Personality - Wealth
LoisLane85's photo
Fri 09/02/16 01:21 AM
When you're in the dating scene, how do you rate the importance of these traits traits when looking for a companion?

- Looks/Appearance
- Personality/Compatability
- Wealth/Financial Status

Manturkey1's photo
Fri 09/02/16 02:28 AM
Throw the 3rd one out .

LoisLane85's photo
Fri 09/02/16 02:33 AM
So what someone does for a living or their financial status isnt one of the determining factors of starting a new relationship with someone? Finances are one of the top causes of divorce, and it is because people fail to see the importance of money and how it effects the lifestyle and personalities of us. We're not all compatible financially...

Argo's photo
Fri 09/02/16 02:45 AM
i got money.... it's the rest that i want...

Jaan Doh 's photo
Fri 09/02/16 02:57 AM
Edited by Jaan Doh on Fri 09/02/16 02:58 AM
This is similar to asking which door will you choose?

Love Sex or Money...







Edit:

Edit because the link didnt work right

How to choose the right door for you

http://www.wikichoices.com/search/label/2.%20Love?updated-max=2015-01-15T19:31:00-08:00&max-results=20&start=40&by-date=false




Rooster35's photo
Fri 09/02/16 03:48 AM
Edited by Rooster35 on Fri 09/02/16 04:01 AM

When you're in the dating scene, how do you rate the importance of these traits traits when looking for a companion?

- Looks/Appearance
- Personality/Compatability
- Wealth/Financial Status


- Looks/Appearance
It's important that she takes care of her appearance.
9/10
-Personality/Compatibility
It's important she has her own personality and beliefs and they have to mix with mine without a hitch. That's Compatibility and if it's not there then there's no use to even go as far as a dinner.
10/10
-Wealth/Financial Status
Same as above. If she cannot hold her own I won't hold it for her. Either she is my equal or she can just move on.
10/10
Matter of fact, even if she's 10/10 on those criteria it won't mean that were a good match.
Beauty fades to make room for wrinkles and wisdom.
Personality changes as convictions and beliefs evolve.
Financial status can also change. Any business owner who has ever filed for bankruptcy can tell you that.
So are those criteria really the basis for a wise decision regarding a potential partner?
In my opinion, I think not.
I would fall in love with a truthful kindhearted woman who has compassion for her fellow human beings over a money - hungry and heartless liar.
But that's just me.

no photo
Fri 09/02/16 12:13 PM

hi loislane
most important is compatibllty u don't get compatible person
looks not much important if I am looking handsome i am easily got jolly
and I am wealthy i easily buy any money sucker ***** so most important compatibllty sorry if I hurt any oneb and sorry for my poor english

UrMissingLib's photo
Fri 09/02/16 12:44 PM


When you're in the dating scene, how do you rate the importance of these traits traits when looking for a companion?

- Looks/Appearance
- Personality/Compatability
- Wealth/Financial Status


- Looks/Appearance
It's important that she takes care of her appearance.
9/10
-Personality/Compatibility
It's important she has her own personality and beliefs and they have to mix with mine without a hitch. That's Compatibility and if it's not there then there's no use to even go as far as a dinner.
10/10
-Wealth/Financial Status
Same as above. If she cannot hold her own I won't hold it for her. Either she is my equal or she can just move on.
10/10
Matter of fact, even if she's 10/10 on those criteria it won't mean that were a good match.
Beauty fades to make room for wrinkles and wisdom.
Personality changes as convictions and beliefs evolve.
Financial status can also change. Any business owner who has ever filed for bankruptcy can tell you that.
So are those criteria really the basis for a wise decision regarding a potential partner?
In my opinion, I think not.
I would fall in love with a truthful kindhearted woman who has compassion for her fellow human beings over a money - hungry and heartless liar.
But that's just me.



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yetanotherusername1's photo
Fri 09/02/16 01:42 PM
This is one that's tough, first I understand that it takes money to do things but by no means would I put that first. Initially it's looks that attracts you to someone but I've dated a girl when I was 20 that I wasn't initially physically attracted to, when I got to know her she became much cuter and then I found myself getting attracted to her. So It's a close one between looks and personality, as much as I enjoy the sights of a beautiful woman she can be a real drag if she's got a horrible disposition.
I'm gonna say personality, looks, money. And if someone didn't want to be with me because I didn't make enough then I will be way better off without. There's too much in this world to enjoy with little.