Mine was a blind date from a dating site that turned out to be a guy. Ouch! He/she was portrayed to be a female. Luckily I noticed the adams apple so I didn't put any moves on him/her. He/she looked quite attractive though. It was difficult to tell. My gaydar was going off like crazy but my eyes were like that's a woman. I felt very weird. I didn't know his/her situation. Maybe I was wrong. But mostly I was in shock. I was starving so we went ahead and ate dinner together. Everybody was acting normal like nothing was wrong. I felt like everybody in the room was staring at us but nobody was.

During dinner I made it very clear that I was a straight male. I brought up the obvious and asked why in the world would you say you are a straight female. He/She claimed to have gone on many dates with straight guys. Some bolt but some stay. I asked if anybody ever kick his/her azz. The reply was no. He/she claimed to have pleasured quite a few straight guys and that didn't make them gay. I was extremely uncomfortable at that point. Dinner was finished and so was I. To make it clear, there was no contact of any kind between us. I paid the entire bill and left in a hurry. I drove home confused and removed my profile from that site for a long time.

Any that didn't lead to a second one even though I really wanted them to?


Women have adam's apples.
They are just smaller than a mans.
They can be prominent on skinny women.


Why do you have to make it clear to a bunch of internet strangers?
And why should anyone believe you?

Just to be clear, I will always believe you had a passionate affair with the transgender person you went on a date with.


See?!?! Proof of my assertions! People in relationships take down their profile...

What good are assertions of truth on here? They're pointless.
If you don't want someone to believe something about you, you have to keep it to yourself.

Ha Ha Ha Ha...Really Very Funny Experience you Had....Well I guess you have to edit your profile statement coz the last paragraph send out a different tune...just sayin', but lots of good luck still for you Computer Man ...You'll find her soon enough, You are One Tough Guy any Straight Woman could Fall Into...

Here goes, Was taking a lady out to a restaraunt and was lucky enough for her to let me change at her place (no not that lucky)This is wear it started. Got changed and realised that I had 2 different sneakers so had to wear thongs ( no not that thong) I think you guys call them flip flops. Driving to the restaraunt I forgot the name and the exact location of the restraunt so had to ask her to google it. We ended up being late but that was ok but when I came to order Boom Forgot my glasses so had to borrow hers. Had a great time never saw her agin

Out of all the dates i've been on, i can only recall one bad date, years ago.... she was on her phone most of the time during the date....it irritated the hell outta me.....other then that i've not had any bad dates

Ha Ha Ha Ha...Are you having your period??, I have mine today and it's a bloody 3rd day but I am calm and cool...Don't know why you're so mad with the OP? got a previous encounter with him of some sort?

See?!?! Proof of my assertions! People in relationships take down their profile...


I could have a serious relationship but never would I take down my profile as I always loved to read, have fun, and join the forums chat like in this site and the "Only" one I have (that is also Assertion).

Did she have the proper "plumbing"...?

My worst date was getting set up by two friends that happen to be identical twin sisters. He and I went to a huge Halloween party together. The party was at the twins parents house. They had a band, amazing food, bar, games, bon fire, great decorations, and so on. My date ended up ignoring the entire night at the party. He was more interested in taking pictures of himself with other women, especially if they were wearing a skimpy costume. After the party was over, he was nice enough to give me a ride back to his house because my car was there since we rode together to the party.
I must say that I had an amazing time at the party. It's an annual event an I will be going back next year, just by myself.

Oh Dave, so sorry things didn't go well on that date. Maybe all the problems were some kind of omen. Who knows? Hopefully nothing like that will happen to you again.

Mine worst date was one where we turned out to be total opposites and it seemed like we repeatedly clashed on every topic. He just seemed to take offense so easily and every topic seemed to be a debate with him. Not my cup of tea so to speak. Needless to say we did not see each other again.

..hmmm... did you at least offer her /him...dessert..lol..jk.

WOW... all I can say is WOW and my respect level for you went up most people would have handled that so badly causing a public spectacle..
That is just sad that this person couldn't be up front and honest





I can only remember one years ago, and it was a meet and greet... I had to be in Ketchikan for a meeting for work. I had been talking to this guy for about 2 weeks. So we set up to meet at a certain place for lunch. I got there early gave his name to the hostess.
What walked up to the table actually scared the crap out of me..
He was at least 20 years older, had only half his teeth and they were brown and yellow.. dirty and smelly.

I knew there was no way I could even think about eating something with this sitting across from me. But I thought I would at least play nice and have a cup of coffee and try to figure out WTH...

When I asked him, why the bait and switch... He informed me that women in my age group I was 46!!! should be happy for any attention. That did it I got up and walked out.

I made some hard fast rules from that day on.. Before the meet and greet I am doing video chat and I am screenshooting a pic and if that person doesn't show up I am so out of there...

Hey! That's a trick question MaxBlaster!

I didn't take his/her bait and I'm not taking yours either?

Nice try though......

Just trying being funny by emphasizing the homophobe stereotype.

People should believe whatever they want to believe.


That's your fantasy. Good to know that's the way you go though.




That's a good point! Damn!

But, obviously there are other reasons.



If someone on here gets some kind of stimulation from something I type then I'm happy. Truth can be MUCH funnier then real life. I definitely get enjoyment from reading and posting on the forums. There are some really great people on here. I even enjoy your posts. I just wish you would respond to other's responses. It would be fun to message back and fourth to each other.

Her choice of restroom should have been a clear sign that something was "afoot"...

Worst date was going to dinner and she talked about all the things she still does with her ex. Played with her hair and constantly checking her phone.

All I can say yep that's a bad date.

Hahahaha Sorry to laugh but would have love to be a fly on the wall.

Kudos for remaining a polite gentleman in that one, Breakingood.

Hmm. I don't generally try to remember bad times. I've a had a few unpleasant ones for sure, though not as dramatic as that.

One woman rapidly got plastered, that was unpleasant. Had a first meet, where the woman literally ran away. It would have been very depressing, except that it was at an outdoor Halloween related event (DC Drag races), and the weather was exceptional, so I enjoyed walking around on my own.

a tie between two

one where the guy talked the whole time about himself until he finally asked about me and his question was 'so, why are you into me?" ,,,no joke



the second where the guy asked me out in a dark club and the date happened in broad daylight, a decked out car, gaudy jewelry and then I saw that he had an extremely unpleasant looking mouth,,

he kept getting phone calls which he would answer and tell them he was busy, and I was dreading the kiss and when he went for it , I politely kissed his cheek instead