Topic: i think my bfs cheating on me.....
wouldee's photo
Thu 11/08/07 05:18 PM
2 cents for free!!!

communication and togetherness keeps the flame burning.

Sounds like the communication has stopped.

that's never good.

plan ahead, and keep calm.flowerforyou

johna1311's photo
Thu 11/08/07 06:20 PM
Good advice by everyone so far. Prepare yourself. It's probably what you think.
My ex and I had cell phones that were one number apart: 555-1234 & 555-1235. I would get text in the early hours saying they were glad to have met me and can they see me again. Suffice to say, my ex got the numbers mixed up and gave guys mine once in awhile. My replies to these texts were often priceless.

andreajayne's photo
Thu 11/08/07 06:32 PM
johna!!! thats too great! wish i would have had the same problem, i would have had proof faster


johna1311's photo
Thu 11/08/07 06:48 PM
Yeah. It was sweet justice if it was anything. Like I've said before: Karma just ran over her dogma.

At least I didn't get anatomy pics.

mrsoonerrich78's photo
Thu 11/08/07 06:55 PM
why dont you ask him the question about the text messager and if u see a number you dont know then call it

ArtGurl's photo
Thu 11/08/07 06:57 PM
I just love the expression ... "those who have nothing to hide ... hide nothing"

Ask him ...

flowerforyou

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Thu 11/08/07 07:05 PM
have u read these texts? if not read them.. and if he deletes them check for the #. if he keeps the # then he's not a very good hider.

Duffy's photo
Thu 11/08/07 07:18 PM
get that phone and call them back. tell them you are the answering service taking messages for mr. ashhole.laugh :wink: happy :tongue: :wink:

nurjoyce's photo
Thu 11/08/07 07:24 PM
ask him and tell himm the phone calls make you wonder
all lies surface sooner or later

mommyof1's photo
Thu 11/08/07 07:26 PM
if you think he is... then he is! :wink:

fortsmithman's photo
Thu 11/08/07 07:27 PM
If he's cheating on you I have one suggestion this will only work if you have brothers or male relatives who care about you. It's to tell your brothers or male relatives to ask him and use appropriate measures. If not then if he is cheating either dump him or if you give him a second chance put him on a short leash.

Monique870's photo
Thu 11/08/07 07:36 PM
Hate to say it, but you're probably right. I have the same suspisions about my boyfriend but I can't prove it yet. Good luck, sweetie.

SoonToBeDivorced's photo
Thu 11/08/07 07:48 PM
Hey, have you thought about calling the strange numbers? LOL!! That will most definitely catch him off-guard as well as the woman whom he could possibly be cheating with. Sounds rather fishy to me too.

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Thu 11/08/07 07:50 PM
MY GOD! I THINK I HAVE A WORSE PROBLEM! I ... I AM NOT SURE.. I HAVEN'T EVEN ASKED BUT I THINK I AM CHEATING ON MY HUSBAND.. BUT I'M TOO AFRAID TO FIND OUT!

no photo
Thu 11/08/07 07:50 PM
I agree with sincereman51

When you find out it will not change anything so prep to be single again unless you are a loser like him, you will accept his excuse till he does it to you again

johna1311's photo
Thu 11/08/07 08:27 PM
Rotfl Maja! Thanks for that!

If you should become pregnant from this affair, make sure the child is yours.

texasrose9's photo
Fri 11/09/07 11:07 AM
Having been through this myself, if you feel something isn't quite right, and this is a new and recent behavior, he's probably cheating. As someone else noted, there is NO way this guy will admit it to you if he is. Best thing to do is call one of the numbers and see who it belongs to. Read the messages if you can to see if they are incriminating.
DON"T be a fool and take him back if he is. He WILL do it again.

beccalee1980's photo
Fri 11/09/07 12:39 PM
usually when someone is acting shady, yes they probably are cheating. i have been through the same situation myself, and i found out he was cheating..dummy me took him back about a yr later and married him...4 and a half years later, we got divorced...i hope he's not but from what i can tell it sounds like he is...i definitely would confront him about it. best of luck to u
Beccaflowerforyou

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Fri 11/09/07 12:40 PM
Im gonna be blunt...:smile: (forgive me)....he's cheating!noway Either that or he's trying to suprise you with a birthday party???:smile: Anyway soory to hear that this is happening..good luck!flowerforyou

karacola's photo
Fri 11/09/07 12:46 PM
Been here. Several times. The best thing to do is confront him. Just try to keep strong know matter what happens. If he is cheating, dump him.