Topic: i think my bfs cheating on me..... | |
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2 cents for free!!!
communication and togetherness keeps the flame burning. Sounds like the communication has stopped. that's never good. plan ahead, and keep calm. |
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Good advice by everyone so far. Prepare yourself. It's probably what you think.
My ex and I had cell phones that were one number apart: 555-1234 & 555-1235. I would get text in the early hours saying they were glad to have met me and can they see me again. Suffice to say, my ex got the numbers mixed up and gave guys mine once in awhile. My replies to these texts were often priceless. |
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johna!!! thats too great! wish i would have had the same problem, i would have had proof faster
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Yeah. It was sweet justice if it was anything. Like I've said before: Karma just ran over her dogma.
At least I didn't get anatomy pics. |
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why dont you ask him the question about the text messager and if u see a number you dont know then call it
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I just love the expression ... "those who have nothing to hide ... hide nothing"
Ask him ... |
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have u read these texts? if not read them.. and if he deletes them check for the #. if he keeps the # then he's not a very good hider.
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get that phone and call them back. tell them you are the answering service taking messages for mr. ashhole.
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ask him and tell himm the phone calls make you wonder
all lies surface sooner or later |
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if you think he is... then he is!
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If he's cheating on you I have one suggestion this will only work if you have brothers or male relatives who care about you. It's to tell your brothers or male relatives to ask him and use appropriate measures. If not then if he is cheating either dump him or if you give him a second chance put him on a short leash.
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Hate to say it, but you're probably right. I have the same suspisions about my boyfriend but I can't prove it yet. Good luck, sweetie.
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Hey, have you thought about calling the strange numbers? LOL!! That will most definitely catch him off-guard as well as the woman whom he could possibly be cheating with. Sounds rather fishy to me too.
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MY GOD! I THINK I HAVE A WORSE PROBLEM! I ... I AM NOT SURE.. I HAVEN'T EVEN ASKED BUT I THINK I AM CHEATING ON MY HUSBAND.. BUT I'M TOO AFRAID TO FIND OUT!
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I agree with sincereman51
When you find out it will not change anything so prep to be single again unless you are a loser like him, you will accept his excuse till he does it to you again |
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Rotfl Maja! Thanks for that!
If you should become pregnant from this affair, make sure the child is yours. |
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Having been through this myself, if you feel something isn't quite right, and this is a new and recent behavior, he's probably cheating. As someone else noted, there is NO way this guy will admit it to you if he is. Best thing to do is call one of the numbers and see who it belongs to. Read the messages if you can to see if they are incriminating.
DON"T be a fool and take him back if he is. He WILL do it again. |
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usually when someone is acting shady, yes they probably are cheating. i have been through the same situation myself, and i found out he was cheating..dummy me took him back about a yr later and married him...4 and a half years later, we got divorced...i hope he's not but from what i can tell it sounds like he is...i definitely would confront him about it. best of luck to u
Becca |
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Im gonna be blunt... (forgive me)....he's cheating! Either that or he's trying to suprise you with a birthday party??? Anyway soory to hear that this is happening..good luck!
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Been here. Several times. The best thing to do is confront him. Just try to keep strong know matter what happens. If he is cheating, dump him.
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