If he is cheating what are you going to do about it? Also people cheat and that is something we all have to understand and then decide what the solution is. If you are finding things that don't belong to him or you then he is cheating. Seems to me that you want to be with this man but also want him to yourself, he is lying to you and using you so he can keep his car you bought. As a woman I deal with this type of stuff all the time. so move on cause he will never admit to cheating and even if you do catch him you will either leave or forgive him so he can cheat again.

WOW thanks alot I never looked it that way but just wha do I do bout the car I bought him if we break up he aint gonna give it over