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I'm 54, not waiting
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I have known many who are willing to wait. But that is not the only criteria for a marriage material. First is the Lord and His word. It is so hard to find someone who truly follows and abides in Jesus :(
I am 32 and will wait till I make the covenant before God (marriage covenant) |
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I was married for 25 years and have been divorced and spent many years on my own. Frankly I miss having sex but I respect any girl who wishes to wait till she feels the moment is right. Yes, the words in the bible are quite clear taken at face value, but surely if the INTENTION is to become a couple, then the decision must rest with that couple, and the decision must be completely mutual.
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Hello. My name is Adrian and I am Looking for a good woman that i could spend the rest of my life with
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sure there are true Christians who are ready to wait
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I have known many who are willing to wait. But that is not the only criteria for a marriage material. First is the Lord and His word. It is so hard to find someone who truly follows and abides in Jesus :(
I am 32 and will wait till I make the covenant before God (marriage covenant) that's great and God will strengthen you. |
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I am here
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I m here
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May the Lord bless you for your obedience. Amen.
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great topic .
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Edited by
Maga707
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Sun 07/09/17 01:04 PM
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How many of you make a pact to wait till you say "I do"? I'm separated and about to jump into the dating world and this is what I desire for my new relationship(s). Are there men out there actually willing to wait? [/q |
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How many of you make a pact to wait till you say "I do"? I'm separated and about to jump into the dating world and this is what I desire for my new relationship(s). Are there men out there actually willing to wait? [/q So sorry I have deleted my comment, thought I was in another forum. I am Roman Catholic apostolic and have not prejudice, God make us how we are entirely and teach us to love in every way. If having sex means, you need to be married, I am sorry, but for me it is wrong and do not misunderstand me, I am devoted to God and pray every single night. God also make us with free will, and love each other in every way, meaning that thinking about Having sex before of after marriage it is only what human being think, not GOD. And how prejudice a person is. Or does a Christian, God believer human being, felt different about sex, when married? I didn't mean to upset anybody, I am also Christian, my only intention was answer and what I think about the question. Also, what happen then, if the person is separated, divorced? GOD BLESS YOU ALL, he lives in our hearts, amen. |
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From a man's perspective, Yes, there are men out there willing and wanting to wait until a solid relationship is established.
I personally am fine with waiting until I'm married again before becoming sexually active. However, not everyone is like that. But there are some out there. There are very few of us though. The ones that are willing to wait are the ones that are truly committed to their faith. It is the same with women too. i keep finding women out there that are not committed enough to their faith to follow the "Waiting Period". I met one person that was interested in waiting and we only lasted a day in talks. The concern about finding a match that has that belief is whether or not you are compatible with them. It is extremely hard in today's society. Sorry if this is not what you wanted to hear. I belief in building a friendship first. So for me, dating is not even in the cards. |
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i am happy to see that there are still some that try to live by what the Bible say we should all do.
the answer is clear. If we don't wait it is sin which well cause to go to hell. that is if you don't repent. and really change. since i am not going to risk missing Heaven on a moment of potential pleasure, then waiting is the only Christian an answer. It is not a question of moral or immoral. It is right. sex is for after Marriage and not until, and Marriage is meant to be forever unless there is abuse. If we follow Gods plan we would wait until marriage and then share sex with that one and only person until we die. If you will wait God will bring a man that will wait also. then its special cause it something that you have with your partner that no one else shares with them. as well as other thing that come from living life. |
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I just wanted to Say God Bless you thanks you for being a virtuous woman the word need a lot more women like you. i am 28 and i will also wait until God brings that one and we enter the marriage covenant
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I am willing to wait until I Say I Do I am tired of the running around I need a serious relationship so I am willing to wait until I Say I Do
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I am interested
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That's a point but what if after you sleep with the girl before marriage and thinks she's an expert in bed then after marriage she looses interest isn't it the same thing. Please do no deceive yourself to say sex is the reason for most broken marriages. Marry a woman as a virgin and teach her all you want her to know , there's no crime in doing that . The bible is against fornication and adultery. It's unfortunate when Jesus comes the so called Christian's will have a lot of answers to God for getting carried away with the things of this world.
Demonic and satanic advice from pit of hell inform of knowledge . Focus on God and change your mind set. Please God alone |
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