Alright, well it seems that some ladies on here have the wrong impression of most of the guys on here. If a guy msgs a woman, hopefully it's a decent msg and not sumn all about just wanting to hook up. Cuz it seems to me like a lot of women on here get the distinct impression that's all guys are looking for. Well, * * * News Flash Ladies * * * Some guys just want to chat and be friends. Nothing wrong with that and it def takes the pressure off when you have zero expectations.

Just my thoughts on the situation.

Yes you're right not all men are the same, some are like caitlyn jenner

Online dating is a very cold place from what I can tell from my limited time here on Mingle. Losing my faith in this type of concept very quickly, the streets are a warmer environment.

Haha lol at Jenner!!

And well I don't let it discourage me at all. A few women can't speak for them all. If women are being cold to you in your replies then I suggest you try a different approach ;)

LOL...Jenner....That was Hilarious!

But agreed, not all guys are the same. Sometimes it is difficult to sift through the debris to find the good guys though. It can get discouraging, frustrating, and a little overwhelming a times. As it does for for guys too. There are so many of the people that come at you asking for apps and throw cell numbers at you. It makes you wonder if there are people out there that are truly dedicated to finding a real lasting relationship or if it's all bologna.
Good luck to you my friend

Practically speaking, "all" men on dating sites are the same.

I mean

All guys on dating sites want something.
That's what makes them the same.


Just because you aren't asking to touch them doesn't mean you aren't asking something from them.

Just because you see what you want as innocuous and "good" doesn't mean you are entitled to it or that they're bad for not giving it to you.


Other than that, why do you think so many guys go after just sex?
The actual response they get asking for "chat and to be friends" or for dating or for sex is ultimately the same.

If you're going to get rejected 99% of the time anyway why ask for a stone when you can ask for the moon.

At the begining of dating, they all seem different. As soon as you guys are comfortable with each other in the relationship, they stop doing the things they did to get you. At the end, all men are the same.

And all women are lying, cheating, delusional, hormonal *******

Have a good day

caused by men. Where I am its night time, so goodnight.

No offense Dutch, but it's the same old bla Bla bla. If you need help, see a shrink. No one but you can change your bad Outlook on life.

None taken at all.

Yeh I agreed what u said, but there are boys who really looking for good friend and string relationship. Cheese

thought it might be talking about size

... I thought size didn't matter..
Lol

The grapes are sour, too.

You are right, all men are not the same..... now if I could just find one of the honest, faithful ones......

Me too. People can be a bit cold so I'm in the same boat you're in

Who said that?

Bigger is not always better
Except for chocolate cake - big is better there...

Definitely yes, not "ALL" men are the same. Some are good and some are bad every individual is unique. Don't ever compare one man to the other..

Actually, I think I AM just the same. At least, I don't feel any different.