If I have written to someone on JSH and it shows they have never read my mail, and I know they have been online because I see them online, does that mean: 1) they deleted my mail without ever having read it? or 2)I am on their blocked member's list?

I'm just wondering why some members I write to never write back, and some write back for a day and then stop reading my mail. And I wonder why no one has the guts to just simply say that they are NOT INTERESTED??

Or what about the ones who pretend that they are interested and then just stop writing/reading my mail, even though I see them online now?

I give up! It's like the meaning of life, who can figure it? I guess I just don't look GOOD enough in my picture

It's not all about looks!! They may already be in a relationship, but they should tell u, at least, out of common courtesy!!

I know what you mean. I have had the same problem, why don't some people just be honest???? It makes you mad

How do you figure out if yur mail has been read or not?

Sometimes I honestly wonder if many of the people on here are already in a relationship and are just here for fun and nothing more. Because maybe they think that online is no way to meet someone anyway...

To see if your mail has been read, you go to "mail" then you click on "sent." If there is a check mark to the far right column, it has been read.

shutter i agree with u, cuz i do the same when i write to someone i check to see if they have read it and the only reason i do that is when i see they are online, u got me tho dont know if they are just being rude or if they blocked u.

is that any different from the games that people play on a normal basis?

The unfortunate truth is, is that no matter what most people judge you on your image.

It sucks that we live in a society that creates people who want to be lame and not respond back to your emails, but what can we do?

Be happy to the best of your ability. Good luck.

hi snowboard and welcome

ur right people do judge us by how we look

yep, we live in a superficial society where we get judged entirely by how we look, or our age, or how far we are from them. No one looks at character. Then, when their relationship ends in utter dismay, they sit and wonder why...

welcome to the forums, snowboard. I see it's your first post here.

If it means anything to anyone, I think our basic purpose in life is to be happy.

unfortunately when you are lonely, it can be tough to be happy.

we all have a soul, and that is what is most important.

find what keeps your soul healthy and follow the paths in life that help you meet those needs.

ahh who am I kidding, I'm just a lonely person trying to convince myself...