Topic: let's get romantic
no1phD's photo
Mon 07/18/16 09:29 PM






... never ending supply of Kleenex..lol


now it can be told!
you're a true blue stoic!..lol:wink:
.. . stoic?.. I think you meant to say dork..lol. a true-blue dork... yes!! it has a better ring to it I believe..lol.wink.


dork can be well define in a subtle way as schmo or in a much vulgar way penis(apologies for the word).....which one are you then sir?:wink: :wink: :wink: lol!


..ummm... most people just call me a dick...lol..


lol!..as in dick head???...
(apologies if am tad cheeky..don't give so much malicious interpretation into this one..being in the field of medicine this all merely for fun):wink:
..lol.. no worries..
I like the way you used head along with dick... bonus points for you..lol..

calista29's photo
Mon 07/18/16 09:35 PM







... never ending supply of Kleenex..lol


now it can be told!
you're a true blue stoic!..lol:wink:
.. . stoic?.. I think you meant to say dork..lol. a true-blue dork... yes!! it has a better ring to it I believe..lol.wink.


dork can be well define in a subtle way as schmo or in a much vulgar way penis(apologies for the word).....which one are you then sir?:wink: :wink: :wink: lol!


..ummm... most people just call me a dick...lol..


lol!..as in dick head???...
(apologies if am tad cheeky..don't give so much malicious interpretation into this one..being in the field of medicine this all merely for fun):wink:
..lol.. no worries..
I like the way you used head along with dick... bonus points for you..lol..




OMG!...this discussion is totally out of the context now,huh!..lol!:wink:

all because of KLEENEX!!!!..lol!:wink: :wink: :wink:

no1phD's photo
Mon 07/18/16 09:43 PM








... never ending supply of Kleenex..lol


now it can be told!
you're a true blue stoic!..lol:wink:
.. . stoic?.. I think you meant to say dork..lol. a true-blue dork... yes!! it has a better ring to it I believe..lol.wink.


dork can be well define in a subtle way as schmo or in a much vulgar way penis(apologies for the word).....which one are you then sir?:wink: :wink: :wink: lol!


..ummm... most people just call me a dick...lol..


lol!..as in dick head???...
(apologies if am tad cheeky..don't give so much malicious interpretation into this one..being in the field of medicine this all merely for fun):wink:
..lol.. no worries..
I like the way you used head along with dick... bonus points for you..lol..




OMG!...this discussion is totally out of the context now,huh!..lol!:wink:

all because of KLEENEX!!!!..lol!:wink: :wink: :wink:
. No not Kleenex I blame..
dick!lol..

calista29's photo
Mon 07/18/16 09:49 PM









... never ending supply of Kleenex..lol


now it can be told!
you're a true blue stoic!..lol:wink:
.. . stoic?.. I think you meant to say dork..lol. a true-blue dork... yes!! it has a better ring to it I believe..lol.wink.


dork can be well define in a subtle way as schmo or in a much vulgar way penis(apologies for the word).....which one are you then sir?:wink: :wink: :wink: lol!


..ummm... most people just call me a dick...lol..


lol!..as in dick head???...
(apologies if am tad cheeky..don't give so much malicious interpretation into this one..being in the field of medicine this all merely for fun):wink:
..lol.. no worries..
I like the way you used head along with dick... bonus points for you..lol..




OMG!...this discussion is totally out of the context now,huh!..lol!:wink:

all because of KLEENEX!!!!..lol!:wink: :wink: :wink:
. No not Kleenex I blame..
dick!lol..


seems you're comfortable talking about dick hah?!

what seems to be special about it though?lol!:banana:

no1phD's photo
Mon 07/18/16 09:56 PM
Edited by no1phD on Mon 07/18/16 09:59 PM
.. well I'm no expert..lol..
I can only speak for myself...
And what I can say..it is very very special..lol... so I'm told...
And yes I know! it doesn't count if my mother says so...lmao..
..

calista29's photo
Mon 07/18/16 10:01 PM
Edited by calista29 on Mon 07/18/16 10:25 PM

.. well I'm no expert..lol..
I can only speak for myself...
And when I can say..it is very very special..lol... so I'm told...
And yes I know! it doesn't count if my mother says so...lmao..
..


haha!
well,I've long forgotten how it really feels like.
so ,had no idea how special it can be!..lol:wink:

and yes,I'd better stop before the mods appears and both of us kicked out from this forums....I'll be broken hearted once again!..lol!laugh laugh laugh

no1phD's photo
Mon 07/18/16 10:03 PM
We can just blame it on Dick... they will understand.lol

calista29's photo
Mon 07/18/16 10:06 PM

We can just blame it on Dick... they will understand.lol


no it all started with the Kleenex!

so blame the Kleenex then!..lol!:wink:

no1phD's photo
Mon 07/18/16 10:08 PM
Ummm..nope.. my Kleenex box is innocent I tell ya...lol

calista29's photo
Mon 07/18/16 10:11 PM

Ummm..nope.. my Kleenex box is innocent I tell ya...lol


now you're trying to play the role of a defense lawyer,hah?!:wink:

no photo
Mon 07/18/16 10:19 PM



what's your ideal lifelong relationship?



Acceptance of reality

Unfortunately that is contradictory to Romanticism

Because romance is the illusion we place over reality

Appreciation may be the best relationship with "what is"


Actually, I think you have it exactly backwards. The most romantic ideal there is, happens when a person loves and dedicates themselves to another while looking reality straight in the core.

The people who seek a dreamlike romance, and dump each other the instant reality intrudes, are the ones who know nothing of real love.


I would say that it is because you like us all deny your illusions, delusions and denials to some degree.
The question we need ask our self is not, do we have illusion, delusion and denial.
But
Is our illusions, delusion and denials helpful or unhelpful to our self and those around us?

Our appreciation and acceptance of reality is always through our filters whether we are conscious of them or not.
So it is our perception rather than reality that we relate too.
So it appears we can't escape romance.
But I Still have the romantic notion I can discover more reality which I believe is both a realistic and useful pursuit.
Really :heart:

As for "real love" that's unreal man flowerforyou and very desirable




no1phD's photo
Mon 07/18/16 10:20 PM
Still.. complicated..lol...wink.

calista29's photo
Mon 07/18/16 10:26 PM

Still.. complicated..lol...wink.


I concur:wink: ..lol!

Bayu07's photo
Mon 07/18/16 10:26 PM
Add me

no1phD's photo
Mon 07/18/16 10:30 PM
29.. I think someone's at the front door for you.lol..wink

no photo
Mon 07/18/16 10:38 PM

Still.. complicated..lol...wink.

Thats because observing or stating the obvious is ridiculously dificult obviously. :banana: frustrated bigsmile

no1phD's photo
Mon 07/18/16 10:40 PM


Still.. complicated..lol...wink.

Thats because observing or stating the obvious is ridiculously dificult obviously. :banana: frustrated bigsmile
.. and don't forget complicated..lol.wink

calista29's photo
Mon 07/18/16 10:43 PM
yup!..but the cynical though stops me...
as this youngers would often address me as auntie at the course of the conversation!...lol!rofl rofl

and it's not flattering to hear!
I normally experience seizures after!...lol!winking

no photo
Mon 07/18/16 10:48 PM



Still.. complicated..lol...wink.

Thats because observing or stating the obvious is ridiculously dificult obviously. :banana: frustrated bigsmile
.. and don't forget complicated..lol.wink


Dang missed that bit

no photo
Mon 07/18/16 10:48 PM
Edited by SimpyComplicated on Mon 07/18/16 10:51 PM



Still.. complicated..lol...wink.

Thats because observing or stating the obvious is ridiculously dificult obviously. :banana: frustrated bigsmile
.. and don't forget complicated..lol.wink


Dang missed that bit

Just like mistaking a double click for a single

What I cant hear you?