here we go again..you know i cant speak for anyone else but the reason i havent posted a picture because all i have in this world is my son and it takes eveything i make to support us since his mother attempted suicide and left us .last year she didnt even send the kid a fu*king birthday card or anything for christmas,all we have is each other and if i did get the money i would probaly get him the cell phone hes wanted for the last 2 years..if not having a picture means i dont get a date oh well just another sacrafice ive made for my son but thats what a parent does ..now you know what ive been hiding ..happy..i dont want no pity thats just the way it is right now. i got on here to write and just maybe put some of my past hardships behind me i am what i write sorry if my not having a picture bothers any one...on the lighter side hell ive seen some of your pictures and i havent let that bother me...

Are looks all a person is looking for here? I don't have a picture because I don't want it all over the world. If I find someone I'm interested in enough, I'll send them the pic. Amd exactly is a few extra pounds? I put a few but I am not obese or anything. Just being honest. If I lose 10 pounds than I guess I'll change that. I quit smoking and now I have a few extra pounds. lol It's that simple.

Maybe, Just maybe we should list our assets too!

you have no idea how many times ive seen this ..if a person doesnt have a picture theyre hiding something or theyre a bot or theyre a scammer ..to which i always answer ..how do we know the picture were looking at is really you or what you write is really what youre about..the answer is... we dont

Hello everyone. I personally don't judge ppl. Everybody has his/her reasons for what they do. If you don't have a pic fine, that's your business. You shouldn't have to explain WHY to the whole world. People just need to except who we are and what we are. We are all different in many ways. A good friend of mine on here doesn't have his pic up. Because????? It's job related. Ok, fine. But, as far as ppl not writing anything on their profiles, I really don't understand that one. Why are you here looking for friends/other and don't tell anything about yourself????? Just makes no sense to me. I would rather talk to someone with no pic, than to someone who could only say "I'll tell ya later".

Hey, Tombraider ,

I wasn't talking about the pics. I didn't have a pic on here for a while. No pic is fine. I'm just talking about answering EVERY question it asks on the profile with "no answer". I can live with no pic. Looks are unimportant. It's just when they give you NO info, how do you know if they're a potential match?

And how are you this evening, SWEETENSEXYB ?

I agree with you Tom. We can only hope most of you are being honest.

personally i have a hard time describing myself i would rather leave that up to the person that gets to know me i am different things to different people,people see in you what they will ...if you want to know more about me click on the blue number below me and read more a person would probably find out more there than what i have to write about myself..i bet thats why thats there ..what do you think ..hhhmmmmm

knoxman my reply wasnt meant for you ..youre ok by me ...i have got to learn to post to whom im answering..still learning ..its cool..knoxman

No problem, Tombraider. I struggled for a long time about whether or not to put a pic up. But, like I said, no pic is no problem for me. My deal is, I'm looking for someone who either has no children, or the kids are "grown and gone". Nothing against kids, it's just that we're all not looking for the same thing here. So, when I see that someone has answered the "Has Children" question with "no answer", I have no way of knowing if I should pursue ahead or not.

We're cool Tombraider . Good luck to you, and I hope you find what you're looking for here .

OKay I must comment on this one, It is so easy to get a photo online use your camera phone and send it to your email or if you don't have a camera phone then I am sure you know someone that does. I am sure that the people that don't have photos only msg people that do, because i get msgs from them all the time. I am sure no one likes to fill out the info but do it anyway to increase their 10% chance to 25%. I could careless about what pictures anyone has on their profile, but its only right to have something for the person you decide to msg to see or get an idea of who they are talking to. There is something strange about not answering questions, or at least using your 12th grade picture something is better than nothing.

Hi Knoxman, and how are you this evening?????????? I was hoping you would get on the TV trivia thread. Waiting for another one of your great questions. In response to this thread, I already Posted a little bit. Just wonder why would ppl waste their time even getting on here and not wanting to tell anything about themselves???? Makes no sense. I sure wouldn't waste my time. Even if they just stated the basics. Like married/not married. children/no children. You know. Basic, important things. They don't even have to elaborate on it. Oh, who knows, Why do we do what we do???????????????????

I do not show my face due to the fact one of yous might e anti trucker and try to get all crazy on me if you see me Thats the gods honest truth

dont give up, im sure you'll find somone knoxman

Well if someone has no picture, chances are I won't write to them. If they don't fill out any info on their profile, I just wonder how they expect to even do anything on here.

If someone with no pic writes to me, I will write back, and talk to them. But sooner or later they would have to let me see how they look. Since they put the JSH logo on the pictures here, stealing them is a waste of time. They only go so big anyway.

How to put it even?

It's not even the answers and the photos, so much as the time taken to fill it all out. When somebody makes the profile and then has no picture, no answers, no description, no anything, I just go right over them.

They've got to show they are willing to at least put that much effort into it. And like the photos don't even have to be of them, they can be art or something funny, or anything that helps give an impression of them. But take the time!

Odlam -- Exactly -- !!

Do they care enough to even put some slight bit of visibile effort into it? Because it will show, if they do....

I swear, I saw a profile on another site where the person wrote "I'm not going to put anything here yet, until I can figure out if this site is worth being on."

I haven't seen THAT on JSH, but some that were just as useless....

I love the "I'll enter something later"

When is later?!?