Hey all having no luck at all . Seems to be I am going be single for ever lol

Sorry about that, bro. Same here. I'm thinking that "God" or whatever didn't make a woman for me. You're not the only one who feels this way. Try to have fun anyway. Best of luck.

give your friends, coworkers, family members carte blanche to go out and play matchmakr

Be patient.
Good things come to those who wait... a long time.
Women nowadays are very distrustful, they have all kinds of issues we men couldn't possibly know ( or care about ), most of them have had their heart broken in millions of pieces and the total of Alimony payments across the globe seem attest to it; some have inferiority or superiority complexes, some can't even trust themselves and some are plain nutcases... It's not easy to be a woman in this day and age. Society tells them they are liberated, don't need Men and should view themselves as 'equal' to men (whatever that means) but real life and their hormones tell them differently. It's a very confusing time for them and 'taking things slow' is the dating phrase of this century.

You might find a serious mature woman who has overcome said challenges and who knows exactly what she wants maybe within two or three years if you expose yourself to most free dating sites, go out a lot and meet them in public venues. But even IF and WHEN you do find such a rare creature, the relationship can never be on solid ground ( they call that "taking her for granted" ) and you'll always be walking on eggshells because you'll always be in the 'wrong' in our new society where women seem do no wrong and men seem to never do anything right.
So don't get too overzealous about wanting to find 'the love of your life' and enjoy being single while you still can.
Loneliness is only your incapacity to be in a room by yourself and 'needing' a woman can easily be taken care of by means of Escorts, friends with benefits or the good ol' right-hand job.
And if you think a woman will make you 'happy' let me for a bit. Happiness is fleeting, temporary and meaningless in the long run. Instead, strive to be content with what you have. Get a dog if you need to but don't rush headlong in the arms of who just might turn out to be your worst nightmare.
You don't have a g/f now because you're not supposed to have one at this time. Use this time more constructively, better yourself in whatever discipline you adhere to and treat yourself nicely because no one else is going to do it for you.

be open to possibility. not just online.
people often meet unexpectedly.
I met my other half at a little kid birthday party that I almost skipped because I don't have kids.
my best friend met hers at the bookstore coffee shop. he was getting coffee on his way to work and she was relaxing with her new best seller.

wish you all the best

it looks like that for me too hey

Does seem like a daunting task. No one go's out anywhere anymore.

No. No, they don’t.

God just made it much more challenging for some because they need to learn something from it.

It FORCES you to get out, pretend to be confident, at least at first, and talk to more women. It is a numbers game. You HAVE to buy trendy clothes, nice shoes, style your hair, etc, etc, etc. Basically you have to come across like you really are somebody worth having. Start at the bottom and work your way up. Don't expect to jump into the middle and have success.

Or...............

God is just a kid with a magnifying glass aiming the sun on the human ant hill. It just happens to be current aimed at you.