tell me why do woman always run from the truth and always make the same mistakes

not so sure that is gender specific

Making the same mistakes is our CHOICE not a failure ... :((
Definitely, women are shaped by their hormonal system, so it would be reasonable to date with a woman who has stopped being fertile ... :)))

hmmm,, if the same thing is happening to you by many or various women, perhaps its you and not them..? history keeping repeating itself? doing the same thing over and over, expecting a different result? just asking..

Women only?? Always??...where have you gotten your statistics?? and it is but a natural reaction to flight if you cannot handle the consequences of truth and it applies to all genders I guess.

Women don't always run from the truth and don't always make the same mistakes.
However, some men claim that the grapes are sour.

what's that got to do with Instinct?

For a second, I thought it was another, why do men cheat. But now it's the opposite side of the extreme.

My friend...
Am I smiling? (Check mirror), yes I'm smiling. Ok let's do this. Kitty is right, only a cray cray does the same thing over and over again, expecting different results. I know, it happened to me. After my first divorce, I swore off the "type" of woman I had been married too. Thinking that had been the problem all along. I dated 8 women (no,, one at a time, are you crazy?) At some point I realized I had dated the same sign, hair color and body type. I was the problem, as an analyst, I sat down and had to go to councilling. I had been sabotaging my self.

So please realize it is not all women, and to you women who are thinking of posting another "Why do men cheat,,,,,, dont.

now your talkin


friend of my ex's

been married three times and divorced

finally he went to a shrink about it


doc tells him he married the same woman three times

guy says no man they were different people

doc says they were all the same type

I am about to ask the same question lollllzzzzz

Yup happens to the gals too, so my shrinker told me.

There, fixed it.
- paradigm shifts hurt, cause stress, take energy, and aren't guaranteed to improve anything towards fulfilling self interest.
- truth is highly subjective. truth and fact are not the same thing. truth only matters if it fulfills self or group interest.
- the familiar feels good, known avenues of feeling good are safer. people like to feel good.
- people are led by their emotions. people spend time from birth building emotional associations. x situation occurs, y emotions and feelings are triggered, z behavior is triggered.
You only really ever get to consciously change the "z" in that equation.
- most emotional association training is through direct experience, not the stuff that comes out of someones mouth or from a book.
- you are you your entire life, you as a baby (or any age) created emotional associations that affect you now.

Has this been your experience with women?
Sure, there are some women who don't follow their instinct and make the same mistake over and over again.

However, some men also do the same mistake over and over again.

Why do they do this?
Perhaps because these people believe that miracles do happen.