Not sure if this is the right place.. just passing on something that people might find useful..

Years ago in group therapy I hard a woman talk of how her husband would lovingly wax his car.. and she said sadly that she wished he would touch her that way..

We all need some touching to feel.. I dunno.. connected.
Sex can be a way to get this.. or snuggling..

Now consider the person who has not had this.. You snuggle or make love to them.. and they start crying.. This is the pain they have endured
coming out.. just hold them..

Just sayin.. so you understand what it is if it happens..

You have touched a soul..

Another way to think of this, is that you can't predict what each of us will react to, positively or negatively.

It's one of the most interesting aspects of humans, that we can have a very large inner life of symbology. The smallest things, can turn out to mean so much.

This makes it all the more important, if you want the best connection with each other, to be as real and honest as you can at all times.

Now consider the person who has not had this.. You snuggle or make love to them.. and they start crying.. This is the pain they have endured
coming out.. just hold them..


Crying.. If someone is crying, they are NOT enjoying it

Whether a person had it or has not had it before , crying doesn't mean that you have endured pain from your past or you didn't enjoy the moment......according to Igor Frankeensteen, "The smallest things, can turn out to mean so much" to some people. It is the togetherness, the touch, the tenderness or the connection you both shared in this special moment that affects you emotionally and overwhelms you with so much love and happiness overflowing from deep within you. It's an uncontrollable feeling, some women are just by nature sensitive that they feel too much and can't hold back their emotions. There are women when in love they feel that consuming love so deep they communicate it through touch when they are near with their loved one. Some men may not understand that kind of emotions. A tender touch and a comforting voice could mean so much to someone wherein gentle love is being shared. Just saying....

obviously OP does not mean crying because she is gagged and bound
and it is not consensual


but the emotional release that may come from human connection/kindness

Ach maybe... Maybe I see, the words 'group therapy' & 'crying'... & assumed that is why they are all there. * shurgs *

I love cuddling, snuggling with my partner. Happy that he does too. I crave my partner's touch. It completes my day, relieves stress.

I always cry after sex..
Just saying..

i only cry when i see a puppy lose it's mother, or when a woman isn't being treated properly, when people don't take care of their plants right, when i see a shooting star and no one makes a wish, when the phone rings and i don't answer it before the second ring and monkeys that don't have a hat to wear... so sad...

http://youtu.be/aT1EI5vMCFs

Hugging is never a bad idea after sex whether either party is crying or not lol. It seals the intimacy of the experience in my opinion

uh...hmmmm two bodies crawling all over each other

so hot that he is dripping sweat off his forehead..

and ya have to peel off each other when it's over

no thanks man I don't need a hug

.. and don't forget about crying when Bambi loses his mother..
Or her mother..hmm.. is Bambi a buck.. or a deer..?.. I'm not much of a sportsman.. I cry too often... makes the other men in The Hunting Party look at me funny..lol

yea, right? the looks they give is hurtful.. makes me wanna cry more

2 funny..

Now No1 is the perfect time to get out your tissues to share with Moe for your tears only.

I will get you two warm wet face cloths.

i don't share "tissues" with any dude...just sayin...

Oh ok then use your sleeve or toilet paper

Ahhhhh, so you've never lived in the tropics then

If I want to see her tears, I will wipe my whip down with jalapeño.