you are absolutely right...I dont really care about that secret place of hers...it just took me by surprise,,,thats all...

Maybe she will check in.

Lol......

not when you have a toddler a guarantee to have a bodyguard all the time...

Hi Ad,
Maybe this is her reason .....or one of her many many many many reasons.

Yup ADD, when a gal needs her alone time. Just say, whatever you say dear. It avoids a lot of bloodshed!

My secret place is the ocean,just walking along the shore at night feeling the breeze, looking at the stars and moon it just frees the demons life throws at me.

According to Ernst Gräfenberg...all women do.

A secret place? I personally don't get it.
It feels like she has something to hide.
Even in friendship one needs to be honest and say how she feels.

I understand a time out where she just wants some blob out time on her own or with her chicky mates.

Maybe I have this all wrong.

Thank goodness for M2.... my second secret place to hang out....lol....

Natasha Beddington pocketful of Sunshine...a song that's in my head now... Dang!!!!

That was mine when I lived in Sitka and I miss it still

My secret place would be this awesome swimming pool about 50 or so miles from me. I'd just like to go there, swim laps, meditate in the 12-foot deep end, and just not think about anything on my mind. The water is just an amazing relaxant, if you let it.

I believe everyone is entitled to have some time and space for them to think and reconnect with themselves. If she doesn't want to tell you where that secret place is, respect her privacy but as long as she told you her reasons why she would go there. And a day or two is enough to keep in silence, more than that would mean shutting out your partner. Remember a relationship is making your partner a part of your life in bad times and good times. If something is bothering you, talk about it, open communication is important. Don't shut him out coz this will cause demons of suspicions or might make him worry for you and question the state of your relationship. But if you are just friends, you have no right in demanding to know her secret place, it's up to her to share it with you or not.....patiently wait for her return, be ready to be there for her anytime.....just respect her privacy.

As for my secret place, well, I usually find solace being with my family and I enjoy cooking for them, I feel the comfort being surrounded by people who are closed to my heart, they make me smile and happy; or when I'm alone I sing, I enjoy videoke it helps me release my emotions through singing; sometimes I swim and take as many laps as I could, water keeps my spirit calm, after the exhaustion I peacefully fall into a deep sleep and feel refreshed when I wake up

I go to the beach too....... At times its preferred to plan and do so many thinking in a quiet place

I've never had a particular place, but I very much understand the concept, and the way the world is today, with the need for something like it.

Particularly when the troubles I face are being made more difficult by all the other people in my life pushing me to decide things in ways which please them, and the challenge itself is complex and confusing, being able to find a way to not be blown about my the winds of anxiety can be very necessary.

It would be important for such a place to BE secret, in order to be able to reliably escape the pressures the other well meaning people are trying to bring.

Mingle2 is my secret place...

Her secret place is with her boy toy where shes gone to get her freak on