Nahhhhhhhh they are always so clingy afterwards!!!!

I DONT KNOW I FOR GOT HOW THAT FEELS ITS BEEN SO LONG

Just want an ass or mule hahahaha

a beast of burden!!

or horse to ride hahaha

i just want a great women that will be with me for the reast of my live wish full thing

sorry you all just get as$
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at least it's smart for ya

as for the op - for the record it has never exactly happened
that way for me, however i do understand it i think. it was
close - that's all - and the guy's just to chickensh1t to tell
you that they have to move on - or worse - they want to leave
you hang for a while in case they decide that they want to keep
it going....while their actions show they are not really ready.
i have told my dates before if i cannot commit that i'm not
ready and we need to take a break. did they appreciate it - no
not really. it is painful either way. but i have been up front.
sometimes the feeling was mutual.

sometimes they might think it is less painful to be less open.
but it still hurts. and it is incredibly rude. and selfish
because - and here is why they really do it this way -
it *is* less painful (for them).

i WANT SOMEONE WHO CAN CUT MY HAIR BETTER THAN ME......BUT THAT WOULD BE A FUTILE ATTEMPT!!!

Hey! I posted that AFTER your haircut!! it went through a wormhole and came out before your post!! this is great! it will really be wild to see what the threads look like in the morning!!

keep posting!! my guess is that there will be 1 hour of time warped posts (or weirder)

Ha ha ha ha ha ha. I love this thread. I don't want "poof" but I want the truth, but I don't want to hear the truth but all men are assholes. Freaking make up your minds. Geez. No wonder they walk. I would too. Analize, analize, anal- eyes, analyze. Well "poof".

Analize, analize, anal- eyes, analyze. Well "poof". longhairbiker

Gypsy you can give longhairbiker a haircut too so we see his head go into spasm when he says analize, analize, anal- eyes, analyze haha

This has actually just recentally happened to me a month back. I was dating this wonderful lady....first date we had a great time and at the end of the night she was all over me....but I put the brakes on it that night just so we can take things slower. Anyways we continued talking on the phone all the time and one night she decided not to show up for our next date. She claims that she really enjoyed me and my company and that anyone would be happy to be with me...but she then said she may be making a mistake but wanted to stop things for awhile...said we were in different places in our lives. Anyways haven't heard from her much since but she tends to get jealous when she sees new women on my myspace page....then she'll email and see what I am doing....so there you go....happens to guys too....was hard thing to experience....really liked that one but guess I can do better....

it happens
I think some eople claim to want a relationship, and when they meet someone that could happen with they freeze up and cut the person off.
It is so much easier to admit fears, but that won'r happen.
I look at it this way their loss, and I move on

I think us women need to just say **** it and date more than one guy at a time.... It has happend to all women and at some point we need to stop trying to figure out what we are doing wrong and keep our options open. It's funny how men play a bunch of games and then at 30 want to start complaining about how women don't want a nice guy and so on and so forth. You can only do so much and Karma will come back to haunt you and you find yourself with an online profile hoping to find someone. I think we all have messed up (Men and Woman) good relationships to find something better and look how it backfires

SteveFLA At least she gave some sort of an explanation.
It has happened to me. I've been told by a few guys that they wish more women would take the initative and start talking to them first. I say hi, we chat, we call each other, he repeats how he can't wait to meet, then when I try to make plans, he backs off. Righ now it's been happening with one guy so I ask him to be upfront and tell me if he's just not interested and I can then move on. But he keeps putting me off, "I'll call you this weekend" or "I'll write you and let you know."
Just make up your mind and say what you want.

It happens all the time! It's not just men-women do it to the guys too. I think for one reason or another a guy might not like you. But instead of being an adult and having the uncomfortable "thanks but no thanks" conversation, they just bolt. Don't sweat it. The right one will come along soon.

NOT ALL MEN ARE PIGS , AND BESIDES SOMTIMES I FEEL LIKE WOMEN DO THE SAME THING, HE PROBABLY WAS JUST A PLAYER OR WAS TOO MUCH OF A WUSS TO BREAK IT OFF LIKE A MAN!

Some people want a relationship so bad they go headfast into starting one .....only to find that it's not exactly what they want.Though they should have the tact to explain. Yet other people are just plain old dogs.

That has happened to me before... I think it usually a sign that whatever you thought you had wasn't actually there. It hurts a little and it is definitely confusing, but it's better to find out he's a flake after a few dates than to get too involved. Usually it either it means he's distracted easily, he wasn't ready for what you had to offer, or he was only interested in sex and it was taking too long to get it. No matter what the reason, I wouldn't blame yourself.

I have also been on the other side of this. I admit I have let the busyness of my life as a full-time student and full-time office manager mask the true reason I no longer have time to go out with someone. When I did the disappearing it was really all about the level of committment I felt. If there is no mention of being exclusive and there is no real committment there doesn't necessarily have to be a "break up"... what exactly is there to break up? You go on a few dates, think he's funny or cute on the first few, then realize something just doesn't work. I think in that case it's easier to let things fizzle out rather than creating some big scene.