Would you trust a profile with only one photo of the person wearing shades? Is seeing that person's eyes important to you?

I don't really care.

One pic is sufficient for random profiles.
Shades, no shades, doesn't matter.

Okay let's say you like what you see with the one photo of her wearing shades. You chat and one day decide to meet. When you meet her, you discover that one eye is shut or she is severely cock eyed. Would you still be interested?

I at least know not to stick it in her eye.

As long as "I" am not cockeyed. I want to avoid any unwanted pregnancies from just looking.

So you'd consider dating a cock eyed/crossed eye person?

I have dated women with lazy eyes more than once and considered them beautiful.

I've heard of ancient Amazonian cultures where sloped head and cross eyed were the ideals of beauty...so headweights and hanging adornment were used.
There's that awful "neckstretching" with sequential rings in SE Asia.

I WON'T go THAT far.

Anyway, the ideals of beauty differ between culture, region, era, and even person.

I still believe in the Francis Bacon quote: "For there is no such great beauty which hath not some strangeness in proportion."

Whether they truly are or not I treat every one photo profile as a scammer

maybe they are one of the Blues-Brothers!

Most of the time they are, from what I have encountered.

No.
But I wouldn't automatically distrust it.
Photo's don't really do anything online but offer a false sense of security.

You are never guaranteed the picture or video of the person you are interacting with is going to be who shows up to a date.


You don't really see their eyes until you actually meet in person.


Maybe.
Depends on a lot of things.


Maybe.
I wouldn't be all "I need to find me a cock eyed crossed eye person" but if they were highly attractive and great to interact with then the eye might not be that big of deal.

The more they are insecure about it, or the less attracted I am to them otherwise, the more it's going to matter, though.

This person I was chatting with had on shades. My first thought was, "I bet this person has some eyes issues" surely enough I was right. I would be cool with that,however when I witnessed the arrogance and overall pompus attitude... I had to shut that situation down. The person clearly isn't eye candy to me and they are aware that they will ONLY be so to certain groups of ppl.

Sometimes there is nothing wrong with a slice of humble pie.

Actually a person's pictures are the one of the last things I look at. I read the person's profiles, since I usually am attracted to someone in forums more than I am a cold profile.

It wouldn't bother me...

If and when I go off site I prefer to video to see what the person really is and how the facial expression interact with the personality I have had a glimpse of.

Makes sense. Best wishes with that girlie

most of the women im currently comimg across either want to control mistaking me for a weak minded guy or they have some hidden agenda where they want to have endless emails and waste time and refuse to face and voice verify via skype or they really like me claim that they have "fell in love" with me and expect me to pay $1000 plus for their plane ticket. are yall having any luck on yalls side? been on this is site since last sunday and no dice as of yet.

if they are not in the forums, i treat them as a scammer...

amen

Sorry that you've met a few or more than your share of bad apples. You are not a bad looking male, so you do need this site or any site to find dates. Best wishes with you. Peace and love

I didn't noticed the forums upon joining this site. I found the forums by accident. So I would necessary agree with that one.

I won't meet anyone, after only a day of chat.

If I'm curious, I'll ask if she has other pics.