I don't ask for much , just an honest women

I don't want to belittle your feelings in anyway, but hundreds of people on this site are in the same position as you are. Finding the right match is challenging for most people. If most of us had it figured out , we woudnt be searching for love ON THE INTERNET lol.

Try to take a step back from the dating chase f you can and take time to regroup. The frustration that you feel may come across as desperation and that will dating prospects further away.

Try to have as much fun as u can. Have a laugh or two. And get back i the game when you feel more relaxed and confident. That energy s likely to attract better results even if its just meaningful and uplifting friendships. Good luck to you!

Am also in the same situation, cause I always try to fine someone that can take away my lonelyness away, but could'nt fined any.

I agree partially.

I believe there are two reasons that make it challenging to find a proper love or a good friend. The first one is that maybe people aren't encountered enough cases to choose from. That means they work in a place where they don't have to meet people. And secondly, we normally look for a great deal of characteristics in a person that we don't possess even half of them. Sometimes, these criteras we're looking for could not fit in a person so that we have to wait for God to create one like that lol.

What are the solutions, you might ask!? There are lots of places, online an offline, to give us the chance to meet more people. Language classes, gyms, clubs, and online dating sites.

And a word to the wise, don't put aside all your criteria but the subordinate ones. There are red lines and yellow lines for every single one of us. For instance, if I don't smock and I don't want to have a partner who smocks, that can my red line. It means I would definitely say no to that person even if he or she has many other benefits like education, money, house, an expensive car, a great family and many others. We should know our red lines and yellow lines. If he stands in your yellow line you ask yourself can cope with this?! If the answer is yes, you can keep going. Don't anticipate to find a person with no negative point.

If I want to talk about these things, it might end up in a book long text ;)

Thank you all!