Sometimes we jus feel very lonely,we need some1 to talk but don't wanna talk to any1...completely paradox mental state! We feel the loneliest person on earth, as if there's no1 to talk to,no1 cares for us!this thinking leads to us being very sad and low!
What should one do,if he/she goes through this???

IMO not really.
IMO/IME people feel lonely and need "some1" to talk to but they don't want to go through the relationship/communication development process, or to leave the house, or spend money, or bathe.
They don't want to have to explain or justify themselves.

They just want to immediately gratify their desire to not feel bad and need to be understood and accepted, socially validated, they want someone as a quick emotional slave to make it go away, and then the slave goes away, gets put on their shelf, and there are no judgments or recriminations or costs associated with using the other person.

But that's not reality. So "we" need "some1" to talk to, but then all the things that are required to make it meaningful, the logistics of how to find/get "some1" to talk to, flash through your head at the same speed as the desire, and you just don't want to do it.

Not a paradox at all. IMO.
It's just wanting an immediate short term fix to get through a rough patch, but not wanting to pay for it.


Feeling sad and low are supposed to motivate you to make the sad and lowness go away.
By finding other people and joining other groups.

If you're trained in things like "love yourself!" or "be independent" or "people are judgmental" and happiness and fulfillment can be bought and is disposable, procured from a distant store with same day delivery, you don't learn how or how to value going through the process and work with others of making it so you aren't sad and low.

Psychologists and doctors tend to offer the quick fix of exercise.
Which is just chasing endorphins.
Or pills, which are just safer forms of crack.

So, if you're too scared to go out and find people, if you're too low and sad to want to go through the weeks, months, years, of developing a relationship to the point where you can talk to someone and it doesn't matter what you say, they understand and accept and listen to you, then exercise. Exercise and recite amusing jokes in your head.
Go chase endorphins. Go get the happy juice flowing.
It's cheap and less addictive than crack.

They could post interesting topics in the forum as you have done and enjoy the company of feedback from the mingle community!

I think this is just a normal state of mind wherein we need some time to be alone, focus on your inner self, do some thinking and realization. It happens to me sometimes when I get fed up with the people around me who becomes too shallow and I feel they are not really sincere with me or other times I feel like some of my friends just stay with me or come to me if they need something and after they got what they want they don't need you anymore. When these happens, I take a break to just be with myself alone, I do many stuffs to keep myself busy......focus on my work, do physical fitness exercise, yoga, dance, swimming keeps me relax and feel calm, videoke, I sing and sing at home, lol, it's stress relieving , I read or watch tv shows or movies. Be on your own for awhile and just keep yourself relax and be at peace with yourself.......don't worry it's normal just don't overdo it, trying to keep yourself away from people for a long time...... just do things that you like to do alone