Topic: how do i get a boyfriend?
Nickinolosers's photo
Thu 10/25/07 06:18 PM
DO TELL

mikecom21hotmaiL's photo
Thu 10/25/07 06:21 PM
Nicki Pick me


Just doesnt work that way I guess

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Thu 10/25/07 06:21 PM
you should read a book called get yours. its a relationship book for african american women. and my advice is go out more and have fun. its the same with men women want to join in the fun so they say hi.

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 10/25/07 06:22 PM
I think you should hook up with player so I don't have to spend my tax money on cfc and so I don't have to spend my personal wealth on aspirin listening to your problems. Ya givin me a headache with your ignorance.

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 10/25/07 06:26 PM
Grow up get an education! Be independent! Not codependent! Ya makin everyone sick here. Where's your mind? Hello anyone home?

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Thu 10/25/07 06:26 PM
LOL Longhair telling it like it islaugh

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Thu 10/25/07 06:30 PM
when a guy shows some interest in you

you decide to take it

or leave it

bigsmile




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Thu 10/25/07 06:30 PM
Here we go again!

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Thu 10/25/07 06:31 PM
thatplayer89 - nothing wrong with her pics, she is a nice looking girl.

^^^^^^^5 longhairbiker flowerforyou

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 10/25/07 06:34 PM
I can handle a cry for help but not a cry of ignorance. Poor freaking me. Get a life! Help others! Get out and do charity work! Donate time to help others who really need help! Go to church! Freaking sit home act all bad the world revolves around me I deserve everything handed to me on a silver platter. What planet you on? Hello real life here.

Autumn_queen's photo
Thu 10/25/07 06:36 PM
Longhairbiker, why don't you take your own advice and stop going around in random posts and asking "where are all the good women at?"
And why do you assume she is making everyone here sick?

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 10/25/07 06:37 PM
I can handle a cry for help but not a cry of ignorance. Poor freaking me. Get a life! Help others! Get out and do charity work! Donate time to help others who really need help! Go to church! Freaking sit home act all bad the world revolves around me I deserve everything handed to me on a silver platter. What planet you on? Hello real life here.

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 10/25/07 06:42 PM
The where are all the good women at was a joke. We had a game of thread tag going on. No I'm cool. Got it out in one breath. Whew feelin better. Sorry if I offended anyone.

Autumn_queen's photo
Thu 10/25/07 06:43 PM
Once again, LHB, I suggest you take your own advice.

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 10/25/07 06:44 PM
And because I had 5 messages saying they were sick.

dwhitesd's photo
Thu 10/25/07 06:44 PM
Just be yourself. Confidence is very attractive

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 10/25/07 06:47 PM
Being responsible is attractive. Huh?

Autumn_queen's photo
Thu 10/25/07 06:53 PM
BTW- Just to clarify on what I previously said on "You'll get one when you aren't looking for one"

I mean when you want a boyfriend badly, it seems like they can sense it on you and it is kind of a turn off to them and they really don't want to be with someone they could have instantly.
They really do like it when you play hard to get,lol.

What you have to do first is assert yourself, stand tall and declare to yourself "I am perfectly fine and happy without a boyfriend, and any man would be lucky to have me" then you will get that confidence and "hard-to-get heir"
hehehe. Good luck.
Love is a battlefield.

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Thu 10/25/07 07:02 PM
perfect response. autumn i love you you my kind of woman

Chazster's photo
Thu 10/25/07 07:04 PM
Dont bash LHB, he did speak the truth in some point. She is pretty young and guys that age are not really looking for someone who has a kid. I am 22 and as of right now its pretty much a deal breaker with me. I am not even sure if I want kids of my own (rough issues with my dad.. you know how it is) and I really don't want to worry about someone else's at this point in my life. Note that last sentence. As I get older its possible this will change.

As far as education, I don't know if mary is going to any type of school or if she is planning on it, but for my I like educated girls who are independent. I like to debate and have intelligent conversations and I love people that have strong opinions.

Every person is different though.