here i am, reading thru the posts, yes i have my thoughts on some of 'em, but i just keep seeing the same kinda posts. "What am i doing wrong" and "What do women like" and the likes..

alot of us have seen these kind of posts before, not to imply the original poster's situation is not unique, but generally speaking, it's the same kinda thing

so...it leads me to think, what in the world is wrong with all of us, everyone thinks the same things sometimes, everyone has been in the same situation at some point, why are we all single? why are we all looking so hard? is there no way to 'bond' over these things? and once we have, by all our posts, and replies, why are we still single and looking?

then i remember... "there is no being bored, only boring people"

am i bored, or just boring? lol



(disclaimer: just the random thoughts, rambled on and typed out...not meant to degrade, insult, or insinuate anyone or anything)

OMG I love it

Thanks ellgee

truly not here to look hard... just here to have fun and laugh at myself .... but if you want to quit looking look me up

have you looked at my profile? im not looking lol

This is a repeat topic too, ellgee! Are you bored??

nah didnt really care to look just thought i had ot get in on a new topic.... or was it that new... truly almost every topic is the same .... your right can get boring... but I try to have fun anyway

bay- i must be boring lol

soldier- it's all good..again, just rambled thoughts

Soldier.....I have never dated a blue box before.....

Fresh you dont know what your missing baby

<<<<yaawnnn inggggggggggggg

Does he have blue balls too?

I don't know soldier .....you seem a bit square.
Since the 80's are supposedly coming back.....is it hip to be square again?

Ellgee, I think you should just keep posting...I wanna see you hit 5000 posts today!

....<--------------- insert bordom here....

The reason we are always looking is simple...
when we seek we are not as open as we can be.

When we find we do not truly try to keep communications open so it can continue.By Not being open.

When we fall we place so much effort in the beginning that when the new has worn off Most of us have nothing else to offer.

We would accept something less than what we truly seek so it truly is doomed from the beginning.

We may even try to seek others outside of our true arena.
And i do not say this with any mean intent.example:
a 300 + woman would have on profile Seeking a goodlooking, fit man only no out of shape men need to reply. my take is if you can't offer the same equally then you should not require that you can not give.
If you are a habitual liar why would you only accept honest men only.
If you are a negative person why ask for someone who is humorous and funny...

I have had in my life a true love, One i thought would be forever (even bore me 2 children) But i found she was unable to be on an equal level with me and wanted things that i could not offer (was against my nature) and in the end it was a oneway relationship. Had i not asked for what i was capable of giving (Yes) could i get it in return (NO) and sometimes all that we do is not enough...

So search yourself First, realise who you are, then what you can share and accept from another.
Pray to God with an open heart and let Your heart lead you with open eyes...
Still no garuntees, But i believe maybe if nothing else you wont have to ask why Things are this way... You will Just know it is.

The reason we are always looking is simple...
when we seek we are not as open as we can be.

When we find we do not truly try to keep communications open so it can continue.By Not being open.

When we fall we place so much effort in the beginning that when the new has worn off Most of us have nothing else to offer.

We would accept something less than what we truly seek so it truly is doomed from the beginning.

We may even try to seek others outside of our true arena.
And i do not say this with any mean intent.example:
a 300 + woman would have on profile Seeking a goodlooking, fit man only no out of shape men need to reply. my take is if you can't offer the same equally then you should not require that you can not give.
If you are a habitual liar why would you only accept honest men only.
If you are a negative person why ask for someone who is humorous and funny...

I have had in my life a true love, One i thought would be forever (even bore me 2 children) But i found she was unable to be on an equal level with me and wanted things that i could not offer (was against my nature) and in the end it was a oneway relationship. Had i not asked for what i was capable of giving (Yes) could i get it in return (NO) and sometimes all that we do is not enough...

So search yourself First, realise who you are, then what you can share and accept from another.
Pray to God with an open heart and let Your heart lead you with open eyes...
Still no garuntees, But i believe maybe if nothing else you wont have to ask why Things are this way... You will Just know it is.

lol @ bay

i highly doubt i'll be hitting that 5,000 mark today, maybe by next week...but definatly not today lol