Topic: New to this whole online dating thing..
RoyalIndianAnil's photo
Tue 01/19/16 07:44 PM
How do I get started? I'm just keen on meeting new people.

RoyalIndianAnil's photo
Wed 01/20/16 12:35 AM
also what are the things I can do to make my profile more appealing to the women of my age? most profiles I have visited so far are mostly fake. I am starting to get a feeling this site is worthless.

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Wed 01/20/16 01:58 PM
Hi :smile: Welcome to mingle! I think your profile is cool. You just have to complete the sentence you started about your MBA. The words hi/hi sexy/hi baby/" in the open line is often ignored by women . I encourage you to read the profiles of the women you approach carefully, and mention one of those details in your opening lines and try to not ask her questions already answered in her profile. If she doesn't have a profile , then maybe you can google the country is from and mention something that is unique to her country in your first line. Also you might want to be aware that prejudice exists in the chatroom as it does in the world, and some women may not respond because of that alone :cry: . There are also filters on some of the womens profiles that will prevent you from messaging them such as age , distance of country etc. Don't let those things discourage you. Send as many greetings out as possible and no harm in including many women from your country as your target since they are less likely to be prejudiced. When women don't respond , just move on. You will find others that like you. :smile: Post topics in the forum whenever you can so you will be more visible and people will get to know you. Hope you find what you are looking for. Good luck to you!

WUSLC's photo
Wed 01/20/16 03:59 PM
Would someone be as so kind to look at mine and give me some ideas, comments... thanks

RoyalIndianAnil's photo
Wed 01/20/16 10:09 PM
Thanks for your reply Peggy! appreciate it! by prejudiced you mean Racist? I've noticed alot of western women have checked out my profile but hardly few of them tried to contact me. yeah I'm aware of that, I just say Hi to anyone I like and if they do not respond I move on. Problem is, there's too many scammers on here and it's hard to differentiate in between them and the real ones. also I highly doubt people from my country use this website, I'm sure not many people do. I'll work on the opening sentence like you said and make it more interesting to read :wink:

caleb6693's photo
Thu 01/21/16 12:32 AM
New this whole thing so ladies what do yall think

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Thu 01/21/16 06:32 PM

Thanks for your reply Peggy! appreciate it! by prejudiced you mean Racist? I've noticed alot of western women have checked out my profile but hardly few of them tried to contact me. yeah I'm aware of that, I just say Hi to anyone I like and if they do not respond I move on. Problem is, there's too many scammers on here and it's hard to differentiate in between them and the real ones. also I highly doubt people from my country use this website, I'm sure not many people do. I'll work on the opening sentence like you said and make it more interesting to read :wink:



Yes. I am referring to prejudice. Anyone giving your their email of phone number in first contact or asking for yours is usually suspect. The scammers tend to have one very glossy professional photo. Sometimes the information in the profile such as race does not match the photo. Inconsistencies are a red flag and scammers usually ask for money or your phone number after a few conversations . You can cut all ties with them at that point. Good luck on your opening sentence!:smile:

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Thu 01/21/16 06:37 PM

New this whole thing so ladies what do yall think


Welcome to mingle. Try to fill out the infrmation on your profile. That will help

lixfe36's photo
Thu 01/21/16 08:38 PM
just be true! be you.. i'm also a newbie here, and i'm getting more interested in exploring this site.. i love the nudge feature most hehe

RoyalIndianAnil's photo
Fri 01/22/16 07:37 PM
Oh noes! I already gave my email to someone like that. Goddamnit ill block them asap. Thanks for the heads up!
happy

SitkaRains's photo
Fri 01/22/16 07:40 PM
Hi welcome to Mingle
I think the other thing I would add come on out to the forums join in.
I think the vast majority out here are real people lol
Best wishes in your search

RoyalIndianAnil's photo
Sat 01/23/16 04:31 AM
Yeah maybe Americans don't make too many fake accounts but people of my country do it as a time pass hobby lol they even do it on Facebook so they can secretly criticize whoever they want and I'm talking about real genuine people here. I'm no longer looking for anything since not many girls in my country use this thing, but thank you for your input :)

RoyalIndianAnil's photo
Sat 01/23/16 04:31 AM
Yeah maybe Americans don't make too many fake accounts but people of my country do it as a time pass hobby lol they even do it on Facebook so they can secretly criticize whoever they want and I'm talking about real genuine people here. I'm no longer looking for anything since not many girls in my country use this thing, but thank you for your input :)