Personally I think that people say looks don't matter at all are not being totally truthful. Its about the whole package and while looks might not be at the top of your list I am sure its on there somewhere. Everyone grows old yes, but I think our vanity also lowers as we grow old. Also getting with someone attractive when you get really old isnt very likely either lol. I think it also depends on what you are looking for. If you want a short fling then looks are way up there. If you are looking for that one and only then I am sure they are lower on the list.. but still there.

Looks count.
why? because Im a Man and Im wired to work that way.
Am I shallow? then God is shallow. How rediculous is that?

However, just because I go for what I find attractive doesnt mean that looks over-rule everything else.

I may find the perfect woman, but if I clash with her parents or group of friends, thats a deal breaker and I'll be back on the market. I dont care how beautiful she is, deal breaker is a deal breaker.

Then again she could have it all but if I am not physically attracted, whats the point?

Im a man, Im wired to be attracted to what is beautiful.
Every time a woman has accused me of being shallow; the woman is sadly stuck in low selfesteem and neck-deep in insecuritys.

Fact is, if you KNOW what you are WORTH you go for what you DESERVE.

To me...

I first look into his eyes. When I talk to someone I like to make eye contact. If he doesn't have nice eyes, it just makes it that much harder