Topic: Closure??? | |
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Quick question for everyone....
I was dating this guy for a few weeks. all of a sudden he quit calling and texting. we have been friends for a few years. just wondering if i should call him and ask why... or just leave it alone? |
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I'd leave it alone and just cut my losses and move on.
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at least try to talk to him once or twice, but if he doesn't seem cooperative, screw him...in a bad way that is
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If you are good friends you have the right to ask why.
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I am agree with bobby blue
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LovelyLibra - I hate that when someone makes you wonder about things. I think when two people are interested in each other they should not make the other come to this unless they are not really into the relationship.
I would take up carnalsins's advice and cut your loses or text message him and ask if you two are still ok. |
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Try to call once if no answer then that would be my answer to move on!!!! Life's too short to hang on!!!!!! Good Luck
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how long has it been? a couple days or couple weeks?
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We were...i'm just wondering if i did something or if he is just being stupid about the whole thing
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last time we actually talked to eachother was 3 weeks ago
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could be both if it's been 3 weeks though i think it's high time to let it go
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yeah...just wanted to know what others thinks about it
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Did you actually go out with each other physically or it is just phone calls and txt?
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we physically dated for a while
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was he dating other people at the same time?
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If he just suddenly stopped talking with you and you had a friendship before anything else, I would probably try to figure out what happened. But that's just me. I guess it really just depends on how valuable you consider your past with him and whether you really want to know what happened--if for no other reason, than for closure.
That stated, I wish you well--not an easy situation. Drew |
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dw....i don't think so but i'm not positive
thanks drew! |
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Well put Drew...
I would try some more but don't get pushy... try a few more time over a week not a day or two |
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i would leave it alone.. his loss.
He will probably try to call again later.. but ignore him. |
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he obviously didnt do the right thing and talk to u about how he was feeling...but i would still contact him and ask him whats up....u were friends so i would wanna know what he is thinking, and then depending on his answer decide form there.
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