hi all, would like to know ur opinion. is it okay if your boyfrnd/girlfrnd still use online dating site? are u not angry or jealous if you found out that ur partner is still chatting/flirting with other man/woman? what the best way to deal with it? hope someone will notice this post. thanks :)

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Think it kind of depends on whether they're still using a site like Mingle2. That has forums, and also has a good lot of people who are in relationships, who still continue to visit the forums for friends they've made.

thanks for your opinion :)

thanks for your opinion :)

I think it also depends on how much you trust your partner not to try and get something going on the side. One girl I was seeing gave me some line one night about how she was just going to stay home. Later that night I saw her hanging out with a group of people, and when I asked about it the next day she told me she needed more room. In the days that fallowed I found out that there were two other guys that she hanging all over. When I asked her about it she never gave me a straight answer. Needless to say that after that I gave her all the room she could ever want.

Wow we only have one name for that here.
What a hoe bag.
Sorry you went through that.

ya know I posted on this this morning but since this thread was listed in like three other areas it got deleted

depends on how the two of you have defined your relationship

are you exclusive and what does that mean?

No it is NOT okay.

Give him consequences for his actions ( & I don't mean, 50 questions, spying, guilt tripping, crying or begging. )
or it will get worst.

Tell him ' act single, okay, be single '

Would dump them in a heart beat lol.

But really it's what are they chatting about if it's just forum chat that's ok anything else NOT.......

I would see if it appears they are actively looking for someone else It is very easy to write you are taken on a profile good luck

The word "Flirting" is where I would have a problem I am in a Relationship we are both out here and plan on staying.

Neither one of us are jealous people and I trust him as he trusts me. So I personally would have no problem with him chatting with women, he as I have many friends out here.

I guess it depends on the type of chatting going on?

If he hid it from ya.....then ya might wanna do some investigating. If he didn't hide it from you and he gave you access to his account....then yeah....you'll feel much better.

I've known women who I could trust implicitly to do almost anything at all, and I've known others who couldn't be trusted to go to the store for milk without straying.

As with everything, it isn't the contact, it's the intent behind it that matters.

It depends. Say, you and your bf/gf, met here on M2 and you both have friends here and you both specified in your profiles that lucky you have already found your special someone... And that you both socialize here on M2. Then, I would think that might be ok.

Also, if one stays on the dating site and the other doesn't... but she/he knows and doesn't giveth a chit... then, I would think that might be ok.

However, if one or the other goes to another dating site while in a relationship... then, Houston we might have a problem.

But if however, nobody really giveth a chit... then, I guess it is ok.

I think you should ask the internet relationship experts on this...
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