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I dont know about the rest of you ,but Iam having a hard tiym meeting someone that I actually might have a chance with .
Most of the guys I have an interest in in live out of state and I really dont know if Iam ready for a long distance relationship at this point in my life ,just starting over. But then again never say never Help I need advice in Iowa |
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This seem's to be every body problem on this site. I'm not sure what to say other then if you get into a relationship with the other guy maybe he came make a trip to where your at for a weekend and stay at a hotel and then go from there.
Don't know what else to say. |
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You aren't in Amsterdam, NY, Chicago, or LA... perhaps you should consider folks out of state: KS, SD, MO, etc ;)
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Yea.. it seems really hard to find local people on here and even when you do find them in your state they're too far for a relationship. Unfortunately there's not much you can do about it. Long distance relationships to me especially in the past have been a total waste of time. I don't have hours of days to devote to just traveling to see someone and I wouldn't want to put someone through that.
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Yeah I agree with anemail. But what it really boils down to is whether or not one of you is going to be willing to relocate.
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In my experience, this is the only real drawback to this site. Although I live fairly close to Chicago, and there are literally hundreds of members living in the area, they do not post in the forums or reply to e-mails. I'm really not interested in anything long distance (having been through some bad examples), so I am just hoping some new locals, who are a little more communicative, will eventually sign up here....
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