how do you get thru--going on ten yrs being alone--not that I dont have friends to spend the day with but its just not the same coming home and being all alone every christmas holiday

you are getting through life being single already wishing you luck on finding someone

You're never alone when you are on Mingle2!

You are doing quite well with your life being single living alone maybe lonely, with no one waiting for you when you get home and no one to hold when you sleep at night feeling cold and lonely......only happy thoughts are your only company that comforts you from loneliness and emptiness. But look around you, I'm sure you still have your family and friends who cares and loves you...all you have to do is reach out to people and live life to the fullest and make good memories. Happy memories will always be in your heart , and everytime you reminisce you will never be lonely

Look at the positive, you don't have to deal with any drama from a bipolar wife during the holidays. If you're single and don't want to be single, its easy to fix. Most single guys I know want the 25 year old playboy model that f.cks all day, but being in their mid-50s and broke from paying child support is not what a playboy model wants. So once you get that thought out of your head, go out and meet people without this pity party of being single and shy. Don't judge a woman because of her looks or size, just talk to her and get to know her as a person first. Again, if you have been single for 10 years, its due to your expectations, unless you've been living at the North Pole for the past ten years.