Topic: Reality Check
Dreamer1982's photo
Fri 11/27/15 01:13 PM
Idk what the deal is with people.
I read a ton of profiles, noticing how many ladies say they want a guy who is the real deal, and I am here.. yet, have had not a single contact with anyone at all.
So, what exactly is the opinion of a real guy in this generation?
I am under the impression, a real guy, is a man who isn't the "cheating kind," who wants to spend time with that special someone, doing things together, hanging out like best friends, sharing how the work day went, etc.
Do ladies still want that guy they know they can count on being there ASAP if their car breaks down?
Why does it need to be this difficult to find a good person to be with?
It is a fact that life lasts only one time, and it is my opinion that this one life is WAY to short to simply let it pass you by..
Is there not a person out there who wants to enjoy their life even more, by connecting with a guy who is actually the real deal, and NOT totally self absorbed?

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Sat 11/28/15 07:10 PM
Could be they are looking for a guy with a head. Just based on your forum pic. No offense intended.

Dreamer1982's photo
Sat 11/28/15 07:43 PM
Yea maybe... It is whst it is.. The pic shows all of me when they click on the profile.
Honestly I feel true colors show through by the lack of response.
Their mouth says they want a real guy.
The actions speak louder than words..
In my opinion.
Clearly

Dreamer1982's photo
Sat 11/28/15 07:44 PM

Could be they are looking for a guy with a head. Just based on your forum pic. No offense intended.


And no offense taken lol... A headless bike rider...

Dreamer1982's photo
Sat 11/28/15 07:47 PM
BTW love the screen name. Lol.
Young Frankenstein

Dreamer1982's photo
Sat 11/28/15 07:55 PM
I read your disclaimer and officially declare you an awesome guy.
Particularly, the live what you say you believe in..
Sadly I must agree honesty does seem outdated in this mostly pathetic generation

panchovanilla's photo
Sat 11/28/15 08:08 PM
Sorry, I don't have any good advice or wisdom to share.
I joined this site simply for some conversation and laughs on the forums.
I wasn't looking, nor wanted to find a mate.
Then after a little more than a year, I met a lady.
We met through the forums..got aquainted.
We've been together for 8 months, and intend to stay together.
So just have faith, and patience.
Your gal is out there. Maybe you'll find each other when you're not really looking.
Best of luck to you.