Hi you know I find it strange that this site has so many ladies on it but noun say anything when you reach out. Must be about the no pic?

undoubtedly.. I don't go further if there is no picture..and if there is only 1 picture I go, 'meh'..

1- No pic
2- You repeat on your profile about size four times. Instead of once, (example' I prefer size ** & up).
3- You say you like 'meat on the bones' But end it with 'this isn't a meat market'. It sounds sex hungry.
Almost as if you are placing a take out order & expect women will just show up.
4- Women don't care that you are here to' reach out, virtually every guy is & we get lots of attention.
(Too much).
5- Women are here for different reasons. And ' hi, how are you, is not enough' Not all women ' chit chat'.
Most think it is a waste of time, on a date site.
6- You need to stand out yourself. One way or another & separate yourself from the pack.



* I am going to go hide now... *

Could be... correction... pretty sure no pic is the culprit.

Plus size ladies are the sweetest.

thank you sir ...

Good morning everyone, just ssying hello this morning and hoping to make a friend or two.

I must say I also dont reply to people that dont put thier pic on

Yes what Sassy said.

Thank You!

plus size women are cool , there is a lot more woman to hold

Ya think...we ladies see it as hiding just in case your lady has someone spying on you to see if you are on a dating site. Being secret will not get you many responses.

nothing like bringing up an old thread, okay then

So the OP from what it sounds like like plus sized ladies and whines about them not responding back to him when he reaches out to them and thinks its because he has no pic?


Really, you think?

I suspect he is in a long line of married guys looking for something on the side hence the no pic.

I dont know if he is still reading this thread but women in general dont respond to profile without pics.

Its common knowledge.

Maybe they are not plus size !

Pictures and anything else you do isn't going to change the responses you get. Women, especially older women, on this site are just not going to respond. Most have no interest in a man for anything!!!

Thank you for the plus sized comment!
I don't respond if no picture is posted!

Me neither. One such lady contacted me and I asked for a picture. Her reply was that there is no point since all the pics here are fake. hmmmm that's not very polite. My picture is genuine and I believe most are genuine. The exceptions are obvious!

When I first signed up here I thought BBW meant Big Bodied Women. Boy did I receive a quick education!

I thought it meant either that or Big Busty Woman, much the same thing? Either way, makes no difference to me, so long as you're a nice personality, what does size have to do with it?

Thank you.