Topic: Struggling- Handsome, funny, honest men in Wisconsin, save m | |
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PacificStar48
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Mon 11/16/15 09:40 AM
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I think it is outrageous that anyone thinks that they have to sell themselves out and become a sexual or financial doormat for another person. You don't want to be the bottom of the barrel you have to lift yourself up with good choices. Maybe that is staying in school or returning to school, stopping nasty habits, living within your means, and maybe putting your wants behind your needs and even thinking ahead about long term needs. I find it ridiculous that any non custodial parent does not pay child support and be required to provide shelter, education, and medical care or be subject to the same punishments and leans. No parent should be held hostage in dysfunctional or abusive relationships and no parent should be working two and three jobs when fast food franchise owners swim in wealth. People need to vote not only on a ballot but also with their dollars. Much of the reason that people are exploiting others is because they are being allowed to. No people can use you if you keep your drawers up and your wallet closed. If more people would demand that honesty and responsibility be a bottom line and kick to the curb, and leave at the curb, those who are not demonstrating such responsibility then you would see a turn around of behavior. If someone can't get laid, can't get freebies help, can't get a drivers license if they neglect their responsibilities and because they choose to be a bum, neglect their kids, and break the law with real punishments then don't kid yourself they will modify their behavior. What knocks me out is the scammers and the Frog Prince Association All Stars just continue to go unreported, ignored or be temporary diversions on the down low when they clearly have track records that show what they are under the guise of privacy or just letting other people "do their thing" with impunity. But I guarantee you if some good looking newbie comes on her flashing T&A&$'s the mailbox will melt down before anyone asks even the most basic qualifiers. yada yada yada boo hoo hoo Won't it be wonderful when I run the world and all this is straightened out? Hey if ya can knock yourself out. If the single gals want to have better options (guys too if you want a gender neutral post) they have to raise the bar rather than give up. Those with experience , and success, will tell you " You only have the value you stamp on your own behind." you can chose to kiss a hundred toads if you want to try it , probably all you will get is warts, but you can also choose to ignore that concept and step over the toads and date better candidates when you weed them out. Is it easy ? Yea actually it is if you stick to some basic criteria that suggests they are at least trying to be worthy. |
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I think it is outrageous that anyone thinks that they have to sell themselves out and become a sexual or financial doormat for another person. You don't want to be the bottom of the barrel you have to lift yourself up with good choices. Maybe that is staying in school or returning to school, stopping nasty habits, living within your means, and maybe putting your wants behind your needs and even thinking ahead about long term needs. I find it ridiculous that any non custodial parent does not pay child support and be required to provide shelter, education, and medical care or be subject to the same punishments and leans. No parent should be held hostage in dysfunctional or abusive relationships and no parent should be working two and three jobs when fast food franchise owners swim in wealth. People need to vote not only on a ballot but also with their dollars. Much of the reason that people are exploiting others is because they are being allowed to. No people can use you if you keep your drawers up and your wallet closed. If more people would demand that honesty and responsibility be a bottom line and kick to the curb, and leave at the curb, those who are not demonstrating such responsibility then you would see a turn around of behavior. If someone can't get laid, can't get freebies help, can't get a drivers license if they neglect their responsibilities and because they choose to be a bum, neglect their kids, and break the law with real punishments then don't kid yourself they will modify their behavior. What knocks me out is the scammers and the Frog Prince Association All Stars just continue to go unreported, ignored or be temporary diversions on the down low when they clearly have track records that show what they are under the guise of privacy or just letting other people "do their thing" with impunity. But I guarantee you if some good looking newbie comes on her flashing T&A&$'s the mailbox will melt down before anyone asks even the most basic qualifiers. yada yada yada boo hoo hoo Won't it be wonderful when I run the world and all this is straightened out? Hey if ya can knock yourself out. If the single gals want to have better options (guys too if you want a gender neutral post) they have to raise the bar rather than give up. Those with experience , and success, will tell you " You only have the value you stamp on your own behind." you can chose to kiss a hundred toads if you want to try it , probably all you will get is warts, but you can also choose to ignore that concept and step over the toads and date better candidates when you weed them out. Is it easy ? Yea actually it is if you stick to some basic criteria that suggests they are at least trying to be worthy. Now that you have got it all figured out let me know how it ends. |
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