My Personal Guidelines:

1.One day at a time.

No matter how bad or good the situation is,
do not rush things, take it slow.

No matter how bad the situation is,
always choose to hope, sleep first.

No matter how bad the situation is,
always choose to live, breathe first.


2.Strive to mind your own business.
Adhere to laws. Respect authorities.

While man can find ways, to challenge the
law & authorities if they felt the need,
it is because they are built to lead & protect.

Never forget u are a woman, there is a line
between bravery & foolishness,
no matter how important it is to u,
if u want to be not encumbered,
if u want safety & peace of mind,
Mind your own business.
Adhere to laws of man & have a
healthy fear & respect of authorities.

3. Never stop learning.

No matter how old u are,
there are still a lot of things
in this world that u can learn,
for u to be a better version of who u are now.

Never demean - something, someone or an incident
that u will fail to see what u can learn from it.

4. Practice good sportsmanship & objectivity
whereever u can, whenever u can.

Just as u strive to give meaning to your life,
before you leave this world,

if your day ends with unhappiness, strive
to be objective, be a good sport, do your best
to separate your emotions from what u are dealing that day.

if your day ends with happiness,
savor it, be grateful with it, celebrate it,
but dont get too caught up with it.

U will not know what will happen the next day.

5.Be loyal.

The best gift that u can give to people
who brings smiles, laughter & goodness
to this world is loyalty.

U can never be like them,
u have darkness in you,
u hurt more people with
your words than make them smile.

Be loyal to those who deserves loyalty.