for guys:what do u think about dating somebody older than u?
for ladies:how do u take a guy who u are older than asking for a relationship?
Hope to get some true comments

well I don't feel my age you wrote someone older asking for a relationship but shouldn't that question come after we decided to date?So if i dated someone someone older than perhaps a relationship would occur

I find it deeply offensive/disrespectful/disturbing when people my children's age think I would mess with them.

A couple years younger at my age would not be a big deal.

If you date someone radically different in age you are just asking for many lonely years as a widower in my book. And it is selfish to expect someone to be your caregiver in the prime of their life.

To tell u d fact, I have never never dated with girls or women of above my age. I am fed up with these lovely younger ones as they are seldom pro-active. I look for an opportunity to date with an active older one at least once n my lifetime

My ex was seven years older than me. That wasn't what I wanted at the time and she even said that I needed a younger woman. She wasn't really my type when I met her because I only really fancied young dolly birds back then. I did grow to find her beautiful and I maybe eveven changed my ideas about what my type was. One thing that I couldn't really take was her acting like she was my mother.

Now that I'm a bit older a woman that was older than me would be a seniour citazen, according to this site. This might sound horribly superficial but I once had a blind date with a woman in her fifties and I didn't realise how old and not sexy she was going to be. She seemed maybe older than my mum and my mum's older than that.

I don't actively pursue older women and I'm not really looking for one. Perhaps that makes me superficial but the way that I look at it, she would have to be very special indeed for me to be interested in her. I mean that she would have to have an incredible personality and not be like an old lady, like that woman was. A woman my own age can maybe compete with young dolly birds but that's asking quite a lot from a granny.

I would prefer an older guy but not more than 10years older than me, I find them matured, serious and tamed by all their past experiences in life already. But, sometimes we really can't control our feelings when it comes to love, age doesn't matter. We tend to set our ideals but most often our heart doesn't follow what our minds dictate, it is always the heart that rules over our head:)