First my son dad had went to jail. We was on the urge of breaking up before he left. Now I'm ready to be single again but I don't want to hurt his feelings. Because he's going through a lot at the moment. What should I do?

what did he go to jail for?

move on hon -- he didn't think about hurting you and your son when he went to jail. you were already thinking about moving on before that.

probation violation plus he caught an extra case evading arrest.

How do I tell him when he don't even know how much time he is facing

you have to be honest with him... tell him u will be his friend... but that is all you can be... let him know how you feel... that is the place to start...

you nor your son need him in your lives. my daughter is going through a divorce with a man that she had been with on and off for 10yrs sense she was 14 and she 24 now and she has 3 kids and right now hes in jail serving 6yrs not actually sure what he did, but i told my daughter few months prior i felt he was going to get in trouble before his probation was up in may and i was right he went back to jail the end of april.. he hasent learned his lesson.... he wasent really there for my grandkids not much of a father for them at all. my 2 older grandkids dont care much about him and the baby she is almost 2yrs old and she hasent seen him, i dont think she would even remember who he was only by pics she has seen...

Tell him that you need some stability in your life. He made choices that affected other people. You didn't put him in this situation, he did. Its time for him to man up and take responsibility for his actions.

DO WHAT YOUR HEART IS TELLING YOU TO DO. AS AN EX-CON I'VE SEEN LOTS OF GUYS "PLAY" THIER WOMEN FOR MONEY,VISITS,SUPPORT THEN DUMP THEM ANYWAY WHEN THEY GET. IF YOU WERE THINKING ABOUT IT ANYWAY DONT LET HIM SUCKER YOU INTO FEELING SORRY FOR HIM

i was actually in the same situation several years ago. i continued to visit him as a friend, then told him i had met someone that i really wanted to be with. after that, the visits stopped. he understood. it was the best choice of my life!!

put ur kids and their well being first it sounds like this guys priorities are not taking his young children into consideration get far away from toxic people in ur life if not for u espesically for those babies

AND FOR THE LOVE OF GOD GET UR TUBESTIED IN A TRIPLE KNOT