Topic: looking for a young lady or a little bit older
drewcappel's photo
Wed 09/23/15 09:42 PM
looking for a serious relationship that's getting into marriage and will stick by my side through thick and thin through anything....I live in Cuero Texas looking for somebody that's in Cuero or Victoria I'm 18 years old I work two jobs and go to school I have a diploma and hoping to become a doctor I am in CNA school as we speak... I'm looking for somebody that will be willing to move in with me I have a house I have a good head on my shoulders...and if you have anymore questions just message me Thanks...Cuero or Victoria only thanks...

misstina2's photo
Wed 09/23/15 09:55 PM
be more careful about just inviting someone to move in try to develop a friendship first before committing flowerforyou just some friendly advice flowerforyou I was young once myself

drewcappel's photo
Wed 09/23/15 10:07 PM
yes I know what you mean but I was saying that in future reference and generalizing but thanks anyways

Funsizecatdad's photo
Thu 09/24/15 08:45 AM
Hey Drew. I know how things are traditionally done in the mid west, but don't confuse raging hormones and a feeling of responsibility and being on the right track for actually being ready for marriage. You have enough on your plate and most people should spend their 20's establishing themselves and dating - getting to know adult people and grow to be one themselves. A smart girl will also wait. You'll want a smart, more matured woman too. If you get married now, too soon, I can almost guarantee it will fail and you and she will carry very that negative baggage the rest of your lives, hampering your next marriage.

drewcappel's photo
Thu 09/24/15 10:23 AM
Now that you say it will fail I will make it succeed because of somebody tells me I can't do something I'm going to do it I already have a good head on my shoulders I don't know if you read the whole thing that I posted but thanks anyways

drewcappel's photo
Thu 09/24/15 10:26 AM
and there's a saying if you don't know that person don't say anything you don't know me you know nothing about me and I don't have raging hormones but thanks again

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Thu 09/24/15 10:32 AM
Doctor? drool

I am yours.

SitkaRains's photo
Thu 09/24/15 10:39 AM
First I want to welcome you to the site.
Second I want to congratulate you on your goals and hard work.

Now I have to respond to your requests here. You are 18 and this time only comes around once enjoy them. I don't know you at all and I an not going to try to change your mind. What I would like to do is share some with you.

I was married at your age and I loved him very much til the day he died looking back on it. Would I change my life nope and yet I have to be honest and also admit, I missed so much. You can never go back...

I would encourage you to take the time to know the person very well. I would say take the time to enjoy each moment of the courtship..


I am in a very loving relationship and I am enjoying each moment I have in it.And we pretty much know where it is going to end up..

Best wishes in your search

drewcappel's photo
Thu 09/24/15 06:45 PM
thank you and I know what you mean and I am going to take it step by step and I'm just saying that in a figure of speech in general but if it gets the point where we like each other then yeah I'm going to let that person moved in with me but I only put that is because that's what I'm looking for in a relationship leading into marriage I'm going from there and taking it day by day and step by step but thank you sweetheart

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Thu 09/24/15 06:52 PM
looking for a young lady or a
little bit older
18-80, crippled, blind, or crazy...amirite?! Good luck OP drinker