Topic: Is Money Attractive?
JRod6119's photo
Sat 10/20/07 10:40 PM
Along time ago maybe. but now I'll take happenese over millions anytime.

Jtevans's photo
Sun 10/21/07 09:20 AM
IMO money is not attractive because the ones that have plenty of it are the ones that think they are better than you.i hate people like that!grumble mad

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Sun 10/21/07 09:25 AM
As long as I have enough money to pay for my needs and that of my kids...I'm good!!!!!!!!

Material things mean nothing to me and the things I want I do quite well at getting them myself...SOOOOOOOOO...UMMMMM No money doesn't matter alot to me unless it's to pay for the roof over my head...food...clothes etc...Primary needs!!!!!!!


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Sun 10/21/07 11:15 AM
lots of money helps at either end

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Sun 10/21/07 11:27 AM
YOU CAN'T BASE LOVE ON MONEY CAUSE ONCE THE MONEYS GONE THEN WHAT


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Sun 10/21/07 11:34 AM
Money is totally irrelevant to me, in terms of a relationship. I'm not materialistic, outside of needing to have enough books and Pop-Tarts and such. Maybe that comes from being raised in a situation where money was never an issue, so I never got any sense of it being all that important.

I have dated some women who were ubersecure, financially, and it had no bearing on anything. Well, maybe the birthday presents were a little more ostentatious. But I would rather have a girlfriend with no money and tons of love, vs. a rich girl who sees a guy as another commodity.

Don't get me wrong, I have nothing AGAINST money -- it's a nice tool, and it certainly has its uses. But it's not the most important thing. For me, it's not even in the top 5.


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Sun 10/21/07 11:36 AM
im stalk piling oil, to hell with money.!!!!! lol

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Sun 10/21/07 11:39 AM
I could never marry for money. I have to have chemistry with the guy I am with. I have to be excited to be around him. If there is a mental, romantic, physical, spiritual connection, then money is just a nice bonus and nothing more.

Tameka's photo
Sun 10/21/07 02:19 PM
this goes for me meeting both men and women with money -- not intimately just in general --

i find that i am able to make better relationships with people who are comfortable -- not rich and not homeless. its a happy medium.


Jtevans's photo
Sun 10/21/07 08:06 PM
Lex,i'm with on ya on making sure i have enough to get Pop-Tarts.if i run out i have to go back to counsiling :cry: :cry: :cry:

nurjoyce's photo
Sun 10/21/07 08:09 PM
money is not important to me
i am not materialistic at all
i have a career and can support myself

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Sun 10/21/07 08:14 PM
maybe to a banker it is...but not to a poet

PinkPrincess's photo
Sun 10/21/07 08:18 PM
Let's be real here. I'd have a sugar daddy in a heartbeat. Are you kidding me? Had the love and it was a beautiful disaster. Money mixed with love or great like is what is what it is all about now. I want to travel and live the good life. I don't want to work the rest of my life and take my two week vacation and spend what I had to save all year to pay for it. Sorry, but just being real. Probably why I don't ever find what I am looking for...sad

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Sun 10/21/07 08:25 PM
oh lord.... H A C Khuh

PinkPrincess's photo
Sun 10/21/07 08:29 PM
H A C K ?????

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Sun 10/21/07 08:31 PM
did I stutter?

PinkPrincess's photo
Sun 10/21/07 08:34 PM
I don't get it. Are you being mean????? :cry:

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Sun 10/21/07 08:35 PM
If you don't understand what that means, you need more than money LOL. goodluck "princess"drinker

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Sun 10/21/07 08:36 PM
I had money...my own...it got me nothing....I'd rather be a poor azzed poet with someone who loves me for me than have money ever again

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Sun 10/21/07 08:40 PM
Sincere, I guess I may just too old to know what it means. I offer a truce though. We are all friends here. Just saying what I feel. I don't mean to hurt feelings...flowerforyou