i'm gonna steal a quote from greg behrent, "he's just not that into you!" dont settle

Whisper sweetie, if I had someone as good looking as you...you would be treated like a queen no matter who we would be around. Nobody else would matter.

Oh Wolf you sure know how to make a girl blush. Thank you.

i agree with Pete,it can be hard giving attention to your friends and your g/f at the same time,especially if your friends don't really know your g/f and vice versa.that's why alot of guys try to hang out with their friends without their g/f being around.that way he can have time with his friends and then he can have alone time with his g/f later.that's JMO

Release......














Flush.

walking in....



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walking out....

thats about asking us do we understand you? one of my main problems with women is i like to fix things. anything. tear it apart and fix it and put it back together and make it work better. but i cant do that with a woman. its kinda illegal, cause i cant figure out how to make the heart start pumping after i find out whats wrong with it,,lol,,,

Sounds like the package deal to me with kids. You accept the woman with kids because it is a package deal. Without the kids you accept the woman you become part of the package therefore instead of the two separate "I"s you are a package of we when you and her are together.

I have found, in my experience, that the main reason women don't understand men is that they think we are complicated. Women are generally complex, emotional and multi-layered human beings. Men are, in general, simplistic and straightforward. If you want to understand men, stop thinking we are complicated! If he is into you when you are alone its his hormones overriding his inane need of others approval. If he is not man enough to not care what others think then he isn't man enough for you.

Last christmas together, Gwen gave me a set of tape.
Men Are from Mars
Mars & Venus in the Bedroom
What your Father Didn't Know,
& Your Mother couldn't Tell You.

One I didn't care for, boring.
The other 2 did teach me some good info.
Want to try to understand the "other sex"?
Read or listen a few times, good info.

Hi! Dignity, self esteem, and respect are the same for both men and women. Sounds to me like he doesn't really want to be with you for some reason.

this query/thread is 8 years old.. she is probably married and pregnant by now.. maybe.. just sayin..

for real an 8 year old thread a lotta searching

Thanks I needed that coz I've been treated like ****. And I've learnt to take care of myself

Thanks I needed that coz I've been treated like ****. And I've learnt to take care of myself

I had a guy tell me once that we don’t understand them becae they really are just as simple as they seem.

If he is interested in a girl (you)
and treats the other girls the same as you

then maybe he is interested in the other girls as well.
That is perfectly fine. Many Girls are interesting.

or maybe you want to be treated "better" than he treats the rest?
so what would warrant this special treatment?
what is the reason he should privilege you above anyone else?

he merely expressed an interest in you.
is not married to you or anything.

Calm down.

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and no, we are wired differently. in the brain and all.
Its like an ant trying to understand an elephant or vice versa.
does not compute - or very very rarely.

I concur. Understanding motives for actions is hard between men and women. It is completely a different story regarding action themselves. IF a person professes love or interest in private but is a complete jerk in public, believe the public persona. That is universal. For the record, I am a man.