Your suggesions are well come

That's safe to u. I know u have one right now & feel guilty. Share me if u wish to

I think almost every man is ready for the same. The problem is that few get a chance! I want to have one but can't find the right candidate. most girls out here are after money. This cannot give the feeling of having an extra marital affair. Peter, can you help?

As for women, most like to flirt & have some kind of an affair sometimes in their married life, maybe for a small period. In most of these cases, its sans(without) sex. An affair may start but many of such women do not get physically involved. At least in India, we also have plenty of married women who cant even imagine having an affair outside marriage. Women mostly look for some kind of a emotional support which is difficult to understand. For men seeking such affairs, its mostly about sex. This is the reason why there are very few affairs that one can witness over a longer period of time. It starts & finishes very quickly.


In totality, both men & women, when given an opportunity would love to have an affair after marriage, but generally, it is for very different reasons and thus they hardly work.

Reasons for having an extra marital affair :


FOR MEN:

1. Need for more sex than what wife has to offer. This is the reason in most of the cases.

2. Desire of having multiple sex partners, seeking variety kinds


FOR WOMEN :

1. Hope of some kind of emotional support which is non-existent.

2. Seeking pride, self worth, attention, time & sympathy

3. Out of sheer boredom

4. Seeking financial help for her own family

5. For sexual gratification, specially in cases where husbands are either not too keen to have regular sex, for whatever the reason it may be, or are unable to satisfy the wife sexually. Age difference can be a big problem. Out station jobs ie. absence of husband for long duration can also be a reason.