fed up with searching .... time to give upp

You are 22. And by your profile, you should be looking in Church.
Good luck.

yeah that's a good idea.. ;-)

With a half hearted attempt you get a half hearted result.

You can say you love Jesus but if Jesus is not another half naked gay man looking for sex I can't imagine you getting a result.

Twenty two year old females are at the top of their game and if you want one, or several, to date you have to have something to offer.
You say nothing about interests, a job, having some of the things the normal twenty two year old should have on his agenda to do. No wonder you are striking out.

there's lots of scammers.. that what i was trying to say

And to your demise yours appears to lean in that direction of being a scammer or someone who is looking for sex since you have half naked profile pictures.

If you run across scammers then you need to report them the only way anything is cleaned up is by putting the trash in the trash.

As far as giving up I don't get that.
I am sorry I have seen this so many times out here. A person comes onto the site within a month or two they are fed up, disheartened, or angry that this magical person didn't jump into their arms.

Life doesn't work that way. Any dating site isn't a magical item. Keeping ones self open to all possibilities is what makes any site or life for that matter with living.

I wish you well in your search.

One thing to keep in mind I learned a long long time ago. What you project into this world is what you will be getting back

Lol...feel the same..only I'm looking for a job......but fed up...keep your chin up...someone happens ...

thanks for the advice. i removed that picture

thanks for the advice...

yeah kindlightheart