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Topic: The Secret
HillFolk's photo
Mon 10/15/07 08:01 AM
I would bring the deal breaker out first like that opening scene in "Quincy" when he starts to cut into the cadaver. When you find someone still standing then you can enjoy a good conversation.

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Mon 10/15/07 08:03 AM
LOL LOL LOL:))

lilwabbit's photo
Mon 10/15/07 08:09 AM
if you're unable to share secrets, it shows lack of trust with each other and could hurt your relationship. if it's something that you think could hurt the way the other persons feels or hinder your relationship, it should be put out up front. if it wont, then id say ok to wait to tel the person, but you should say something as soon as you feel comfortable to. otherwise it may be told by the wrong person

HillFolk's photo
Mon 10/15/07 08:11 AM
I do think Dana Scully from Xfiles is sexier than Quincy when she cuts into cadavers, though.:wink:

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Mon 10/15/07 08:22 AM
well...i guess thats right ..you don't have to start with all your secrets:)))

Peaches73036's photo
Mon 10/15/07 08:54 AM
Secrets don't make friends :(
xoxoPeaches.

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Mon 10/15/07 04:34 PM
@ jennee and Peaches

both true statements:smile:

coryM18's photo
Mon 10/15/07 04:46 PM
if its something serious like 70,000$ in taxes (my uncle by mairrage failed to mention to my aunt) then yeah, you should probably say something, but if its not to serious then i think its ok to keep it to yourself

Smiles2b4U's photo
Mon 10/15/07 04:55 PM
Total honesty about everything is the key! If it's the life partner your dealing with. Trust, truth, and you fall in love warts and all, no surprises. If it is just a dating thing, nahhh, TMI...flowerforyou

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