love n caring mother

A loving, caring and involved in their lives mother or father. Children also appreciate having a parent to talk to that takes the time get involved not only in their needs but to also encourage them, protect them get them ready for being a responsible adult..

Children that have a healthy and bonder relationship with their father from birth have no preference for either parent.

Unfortunately by segregating children with women the majority of their waking hours it is often that they develop a preference with the caregiving parent because that is what they know.

While growing up with my sister our mom did most of the care giving until our parents broke up I was about 7 .

Afterword's our dad did most of the raising of my sister and I while our mom made excuses for not wanting to be a parent.

Eventually our dad met our step mom they have been together for many years.

As an adult I have a stronger bond with my dad and little patience for my mom. My sister and I chat occasionally.

I am always sadden when either parent backs away and lets one parent or the other raise the child.

Parents can justify divorcing their mate but I do not get divorcing your child or making it so unbearable that the other parent abandon's the child regardless of their age.

Painful when one parent just uses it and excuse to back away.

Sometimes, it's not an excuse. The mother gets remarried to someone twice her age for his money and moves away to an undisclosed location. The man has children close to her age from a previous relationship. Then the mother makes the old husband adopt her son and give him a new last name, forcing the child to forever lose his real last name and heritage. The mother forbids her son to stay in contact with his natural father, who is devastated. The father finds his son on FB and reaches out to him in pure joy after not knowing his whereabouts for the past 10 years. The real family members of the son reach out to him. You know what the son does? He blocks them all out of fear of displeasing his witch mother. How do you like them apples?

The father can take the mother to court if she keeps playing games she could lose custody of her child.

Some people as you had brought up previously just don't grow up :(

what children like most

someone who reads to them
tucks them in at night
to feel loved
to feel safe
to have food in their tummies
and maybe a teddy bear to hug
what children like most

is knowing someone is watching out for them
wants what is best for them
nurtures them
allows them to grow to their fullest potential

and even when they do something wrong
they know it is the behavior that is wrong
but that always they are still loved
even when they have to clean their room

T'is true, and ketchup.

and don't forget chocolate cake for breakfast

The father doesn't know where they live, the mother had his stepfather adopt the son and the son is grown now. He just shut out his natural family out of fear of his mother and her evil wishes.

recognition, support, and discipline(yes, they actually feel secure and cared for when someoen bothers to set boundaries for them)

Now that the child is grown there is nothing more legally the mother can do.



Child Abductions Within Canada
Print

Text size: larger | smaller
.






If you believe that your child has been abducted by a family member, you should contact the local police right away. It is also recommended that you speak with a family lawyer as soon as possible to determine what steps can be taken in court to assist with the return of the child.

If there is no existing custody order or agreement in place and your child has been removed from their residence without your consent, you may need to start an application in the family court in the area where the child resided. In that application, you can ask the court for an order setting out the custody and access arrangements and requiring the other parent to return the child to Ontario.

To locate the family court(s) in your area, click here. If there is more than one family court, click here for more information about which court your case should be started in.

In Canada, both the provincial and federal laws address custody of and access to children. If an application for divorce has already been started, the Divorce Act will apply and you will need to seek an order under that legislation. If you already have an order for custody of or access to the child under the Divorce Act, you should be able to have it enforced in another Canadian province or territory.

If divorce proceedings have not been initiated, the Ontario Children’s Law Reform Act governs custody matters in Ontario. Once you have an order from an Ontario court under the Children’s Law Reform Act, you may still need to have it filed with the family court in the other province or territory where your child has been removed to in order to have it enforced by the local authorities.

You should contact the local authorities as soon as possible to determine what steps are required in order to assist with the return of your child.

Outside of Canada

If you believe that your child has been taken out of the country, you should request that the local police contact the National Missing Children Services of the RCMP. You should also contact the Consular Affairs Bureau. They can be reached at:

125 Sussex Drive
Ottawa, ON K1A 0G2
Tel.: 1-800-387-3124 FREE, 1-800-267-6788 FREE (in Canada), 613-996-8885 (locally)
Fax: 613-995-9221 or 613-996-5358

Where a child has been moved outside Canada, these cases are referred to as international child abductions. The Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction, known as the Hague Convention, can provide assistance where the child has been taken to a country that is also a signatory to the Convention. Approximately 80 countries have already adopted the Convention, 64 of which have reciprocity with Canada. Click here for a listing of those countries.

In Canada, each province has a Central Authority that can assist with cases for the return of the child both from and to Ontario. Contact information for the Central Authority in Ontario is:

Gretta Mosaed, Case manager
Tina Kapoor, Case manager
Shane Foulds, Counsel
Ministry of the Attorney General
Central Authority for Ontario
P.O. Box 640
Downsview, ON M3M 3A3
Tel.: 416-240-2411
Fax: 416-240-2411
E-mail: gretta.mosaed@ontario.ca
E-mail: tina.kapoor@ontario.ca
E-mail: shane.foulds@ontario.ca
Website: www.gov.on.ca

A very helpful publication has been prepared by the Consular Affairs Bureau of Foreign Affairs and International Trade Canada titled “International Child Abductions: a Manual for Parents”. This publication is available on-line at the Consular Affairs website. You can also contact the Consular Affairs Bureau at the above address.

.




The Ministry arrow

Justice Ontario























Better Justice Together





Court Services




















Victims of Crime














Family Justice

Divorce and Separation


Family Justice Services


Family Arbitration


Supervised Access


Child Support



Public Guardian & Trustee











Office of the Children's Lawyer











Justice on Target















Contacts

















Follow the Ministry

Twitter Twitter


RSS RSS


Flickr Flickr (photo gallery)




Contact Us | Help | Accessibility | Privacy Statement |

© Queen's Printer for Ontario, 2008 - 2010
Last Modified: Tuesday, November 27, 2012

The ""claw"".... the ""slammer""..
the elbow to the back... let's get ready to rumble.... kids love to wrestle.. play horsey...And chew bubblegum... and to the oP.. they sometimes want a loving and caring father. Hmm

I am still single but I would say it doesn't need to be a parent to know what kids want. I have been with different kind of kids , I don't know how I easily get along with them but it just happens when I'm around them they warm up to me. What I do is simply think how they think, be a child also, get involved with their daily activities, know what they like to do , what they wanna eat, what interest them, what do they want to play, talk to them and show your sincere interest. Try to connect with them and make them feel special, they like attention, let them talk and listen attentively, respond with interest on what they are talking about. They are very sensitive when you don't focus on them. They are also very jealous even with their siblings. You may encounter sometimes sibling rivalry, you have to show them the same treatment, don't show favoritism, each will have preferences especially in games if they wanna play. You have to give them your time , sit with them and talk. Kids are attention seekers, show them love and care. Mostly are hyperactive and they enjoy playing. I wrestle with them, pillow fight, throwing balls or stuff toys, we play water balloon fighting throwing at each other and get wet , its fun, (we don't have snow here hahaha, would be much better if snowball fighting) join with them in playing video games, teach them to swim, play hide and seek even inside the house, play football with boys tiring but fun, ooh goodness my foot hurts hahaha. If they go to school already, ask them about school, what did they do, for teenagers I ask my nephew what is his favorite sports that he wants to play, I encourage him to join in school activities, praise their accomplishments, talk to them about their crush let them open up to you. Notice the things they do and how they feel, if they are not feeling well they love it when you show concern and give them special treatment. On weekends, they can stay late at night and watch tv, we cook something to eat I let them help me . Kids are fun to be with, act like a kid around them. Discipline or take control of them if necessary don't put too much restrictions, but let them feel the joy of being a child , care free and free spirited.